Armelle Denise Barker

Armelle Denise Barker, lovingly known as "Michelle", passed away peacefully on December 8, 2024, in Seattle, Washington, just shy of her 79th birthday. Born on December 9, 1945, in Marseille, France, Armelle's journey was one of resilience, determination, and an enduring hope for brighter tomorrows.

In her early twenties, Armelle moved to the United States after marrying an American sailor. The couple settled in Longview, Washington, where they welcomed their daughter, Lisa. Though the marriage ended when Lisa was just 18 months old, Armelle chose to remain in the U.S., building a life for herself and her daughter without familial support. She began her career as a cocktail waitress and soon moved to Seattle, where she worked at Crêpe de Paris and connected with the local French community.

Armelle later joined Ivar's Acres of Clams and Salmon House, where she met and married Michael Barker. Their happiness was cut short by Michael's sudden passing in 1983. At just 36 years old, Armelle faced life on her own once again. She worked tirelessly to support herself and Lisa, juggling roles as a bartender at Giorgio's and Earl's on the Ave while also working as a travel agent and teaching French at a private school.

Years later, Armelle found companionship with Michael Grimson until his passing. At age 60, she began working alongside her daughter in her business and later devoted herself to helping raise her grandchildren.

Known for her quick wit, thick French accent, and remarkable memory for birthdays; Armelle brought joy to those around her. She loved traveling, dancing, crafts, studying Italian, listening to Elvis, and savoring good food.

Armelle's final moments were filled with love, as she was assured she had reached her 79th birthday in France. May her memory bring comfort to all who knew her.