Four years I miss you my forever soulmate and love. I try to move on and wish things would have had a different outcome. My heart hurts. Thanks for spending time with me in my dream last night. Always be with me. If I could change the outcome - I would have. Give Mom a hug for me. Tell Jesus we love him. As I love all in the heavens above.

As time is going by my love for you continues on. I am still saddened by your crossing over to the other side. To know I will never touch you again breaks my heart. To know I will see you again makes it a little easier. But still I struggle with the reality of you not being on earth. I cannot question God and I know you are with him. Know this Gary Richard Gray I will always love you and have you in my heart. I miss you.



Today like many others we will face ,our family members  Are not only in our pasts .But in our futures as well.....
 My fondest memories were to many to name ...but the most prominent ones were when we as a Family Would goto the Chesapeake bay bridge. ..where Mr.Grey & "BE" Mrs Grey kept their boat and go Crabin. ..early and I mean early 2:30-3:00am to set up 1000' trout lines... Gary whip & I would stay up playing cards all night long...in the basement with that kenwood. Stereo with klicph speakers he loved that system. ..and would blast B out till she hollered at us...
We always would get two huge coolers full of crabs on Saturday and on the way home Mr Grey would stop at Wendy's for Chile & cheese to go with the steamed  Crabs.
We always were like family I never truly had....Gary was my Best friend I truly will miss him . Gary and I restored his 70 cutlass vert together at that garage he had in remington!
We had pics of his 72 chevelle jumping over a line of beer cans once with tire smoke engulfing the car...he was amazingly talented. ...I owe so much to him and his mom & dad for what I know today!
You all have blessed my life ...so I will continue in his legacy of helping others with problem vehicles with kindness and understanding just like he did with teaching me EVERYTHING I KNOW about cars...you will truly Be missed by all!
He's in our futures......
Not just our pasts.....
Eternally with us in spirit!
LOVE & LIGHT 

ANTHONY COLEMAN 

Brian and I are so sorry for your loss. Even though it had been some time since we had last been able to get together with him, Gary was a very dear friend (especially to Brian) and will be missed terribly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Rest in peace buddy. <3

Gary was and always will be a family member!  His did Mr.  Gary,  His mother Mrs.  Joanne,  and Kristin his sister.  They always treated me as family and I mourn the loss of Gary!  He was a true and very good friend to me! I had so many great times with him I cannot count! My fondest memory is when we went to the ocean with several friends.  He came by my work at the rotunda liquors.  Needless to say the trunk of his cutless convertible  was filled to the top when we left.  We did A 100 miles an hour down and back.  We both fell asleep on the beach  and I got sun poisoning - lol.  But I had so many great memories with him!  He truly was a brother to me.  I will miss his singing,  his laughter,  and most of all, his kindness! He was a gentle soul with a kind heart!  It,s hard to say goodbye!  So until we meet again my brother! I will keep your spirit alive in my memories with you! To you dad and your sister!  My deepest sympathy  and condolences!  I love you.  You will be missed my dear friend!

I remember every Christmas from the time I can remember until my late teens our family would come to your guys' house which was the best topper to our Christmas!!! I couldn't wait to get to the house to be with family & hear the Great stories that happened throughout the year but Whip always told the best & funniest stories! Little did anyone know but I'm going to say that every now & then Whip would go upstairs to his room give me that look, then I would follow where there we would sneak a drink or two or three but who was counting!!! Not me of course but I always thought he was the coolest cousin because of his genuineness & eventhough I was only 3 yrs younger he always had time to tell his stories.  I know you'll be missed but definitely in a better place.  Give my dad,  mom,  Grandmom,  Aunt Joanne & all our family a hug & kiss for us until we meet again Cuz!!!

I have known Gary (Whip) from the time I was 2 or 3 years old, as he was my brother Chris Evans' best friend. I was devastated to hear of his passing. What I remember most about Gary is his singing. Gary never had to knock at my house, so he would walk in and I would hear him singing as he made his way from the back door to our family room. He would frequently sing a song by The Steve Miller Band which starts, "This is a story about Billy Jo and Bobby Sue" then he would say, "Where's Fat Boy at?" Whenever he would leave my house we would hear his Blue Chevelle revving it's engine in the drive way, then the chirp of his wheels as he did a burn out and drove off into the distance. To this day, whenever I hear a Chevelle turn over and rev it's engine I think of him. Over the years Chris, Gary and myself had many good times together. We used to go crayfish hunting down at the Jones Falls when we were little kids, we attended many party's together in the neighborhood (as teenagers) and had many fun times just hanging out at my house. Gary was known and loved by everyone in Medfield/Hampden, but he was especially loved by my brother Chris who greatly valued his friendship. They worked on cars together, in the driveway every weekend and spent time hanging out at the local Farm Store and at BJ's Pub. Gary was so much a part of my childhood and teenage years that it's difficult for me to accept the fact that he is gone. It seems like just yesterday we were taking long rides out Falls Rd, listening to the stereo, hanging out at lake Roland and doing the "Hampden 500." I loved Gary like a second brother. He will be greatly missed. Rest in peace my good friend. -Candice Evans

*Broken Chain*
We little knew that morning 
that God was going to call your name. 
In life we loved you dearly,
 in death we do the same. 
It broke our hearts to lose you, 
you did not go alone, 
for part of us went with you, 
the day God called you home. 
You left us peaceful memories, 
your love is still our guide,
and though we can not see you, 
you are always at our side. 
Our family chain is broken, 
and nothing seems the same 
but as God calls us one by one, 
the chain will link again. 

I remember growing  up and Gary living right behind my house. He always made me laugh so hard because anytime I would be in my pool or laying in the sun he would peek out the window of his kitchen. We became good friends when I tuned 17 and had a lot of good times that lasted for years! I always loved his Cutlass and he let me drive it one time. That was a mistake, he had such a small steering wheel I almost lost control. He just laughed it off, he was a great friend and will be missed dearly. Rest my friend and we will meet again one day.  
Your friend,
Christa

Perdue and Whip
He would go the limits for some animals

To my dear Brother, 
Words will never express how I’m feeling. I made a promise to mom that I will take care of you and Dad so she was able to move on to rest. I tried the best I could when it came to you to be there for you. I would go the Distance for you and if I couldn’t, Dad would.  It’s going to be hard not being able to get your bear hugs any more and you always made me laugh with your story telling or the time me, Cory and his puppy Bean came to stay with you and you couldn’t figure out a bad smell that was in the kitchen. You were determined that it wasn’t the trash because you just changed the bag but once you lift the lid you turned a shade of green. You had us rolling with Your facial expressions. Well, it turned out that Cory placed Beans pop bag in the trash. He ended up letting me know later on and I may of forgot to tell you. I know your in a better place because of your health issues plus I do know Mom is with you and that gives me some comfort knowing that. Please give her a hug from us. And thank you for giving me great memories of the times we had together. 
I Love you both till we meet again ♥️

My sincere condolences to you and your family in this time of sorrow. May Jehovah the God of all comfort be with you. The Bible gives us a hope for the future at Revelation 21:3, 4 where we are assured that death will be no more. May you find peace.

I loved you! This is heart breaking. I am speechless. I am sad, I am angry. The tears will not stop.  Know I remember the good times that we did have and the bad which I forgave anyway. But either way I still loved you. I am grateful that I did have you even though I planned for the rest of my life which I will not go into details. You are now with the Almighty God, Mom who you loved so much. No more pain my love. No  more! Hug Mrs. Bigglesworth, Willie, Perdue. This is still unreal for me. For the family, I wish you strength at this time and much love. Until we meet again.... And stop playing tricks on me you have done it three times last night. Love you Richard.... your one and only Sweet Pea.

OBITUARIO

Gary Richard Gray Jr.

16 enero, 1967 – 2 julio, 2018

Burgee-Henss-Seitz Funeral Home Inc.

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