Hey Brett. No matter how long you have been gone I still miss you every day.  You were my buddy from day one and you were still my buddy when you left us. You were such a joy in my life and I enjoyed you so much. The pain in my heart is always there and I love you so much.  I hope when I talk to you, you can hear me. I still find pennies all the time and I put them in the music box you gave me for my birthday. Say hi to Billy for me and I'll see you again someday.  Love you forever, Mom

Hey Brett,
This is the day that changed my life forever. I miss you more and more as each year goes by.  I wonder what your life would be like and what you'd be doing. I love you very much and I hope you are happy and with God.  Love forever, Mom

Hey Brett.  I hope you and Billy are having some fun in heaven and not getting into too much trouble.  I miss you both terribly.  Some days I feel so alone!   Both of my boys are gone and I sure miss you both.  Love you forever.  Mom

Merry Christmas Brett,
Can't believe you've been gone for ten years, I have so many wonderful memories of past Christmas's spent with you.
Love you and miss you.
Aunt Pat.


Brett,
I can't believe that you left us ten years ago, it doesn't seem possible that it's been that long. Think about how you touched my life from the day you were born, so glad you were my Nephew and friend.
Miss you and love you,
Aunt Pat.

I miss you so much, I swear it gets harder the longer it is

Happy Birthday Brett.
Miss you,
Love, Aunt Pat.

Brett, 
It doesn't seem possible that you've been gone for nine years.
I have so many wonderful memories of you.
Miss you.
Love, Aunt Pat.

I can't believe it's been nine years since we talked to each other.  I still  talk to you every day and I hope you can hear me.  I miss you so much.  I am still finding pennies all the time - I know they're from you.  I love you.  Mom

Happy Birthday Brett,
Miss you .
Love, Aunt Pat.

Merry Christmas Brett,
Another year has gone by, holidays have changed for ever .
Glad for all the wonderful memories of you.
Miss you.
Love, 
Aunt Pat.

Brett,
Can't believe another year has passed.
Love and miss you.
Aunt Pat.

Happy Birthday Brett,
Can't believe another year has passed.
Love you and miss you.
Aunt Pat.

I miss you my friend 
Your Brother Forever,
Matt

Merry Christmas Brett,
Another year has gone by, I'm so grateful for all my memories of past Christmas's .
Love you and miss you,
Aunt Pat.

Hi Brett,
Can't believe you've been gone seven years.  Hope you're with Uncle Rick and Grandma and Grandpa Mamer.
Miss you.
Love, Aunt Pat.

Happy Birthday Brett,
Hope you and Uncle Rick are together.
Love you and miss you.
Aunt Pat.

Merry Christmas Brett,
Another year has gone by.
Love you and miss you.
Aunt Pat.

Christmas is coming and I know you will be there with us. Be sure you put some bows on the dogs and yourself so we have a good laugh.......Love and a Merry Christmas.........
grandma Naomi

Hi Brett,
I can't believe you've been gone six years.
I was looking at old pictures and found the ones of our trip to Yellowstone when we all had our cowboy hats on, that was a fun trip.
Sure do miss you.
Love,
Aunt Pat


Another year gone by and I still miss you so much. So many things remind me of you. Love you so much and hope you are with the family that went before you, and of course all the dogs and kitties. Good night and sweet dreams..........Grandma Naomi

Happy Birthday Brett,
I can't believe it's been almost six years since you left us, I still remember the night you were born.
Miss you,
Love you.
Aunt Pat

Hi Brett,
I hope you and Grandpa Ambrose were there to meet Grandma Betty.  I'm glad you're all together.
Merry Christmas, miss you.
Love, Aunt Pat

Hi Brett, These 5 years have gone by so fast.I miss you so much and think about you all the time. Every night when I go to bed I tell you "good night". I hope you hear me. Mandie said you are doing OK in heaven and I know that's true just by knowing your personality. Love you so much!

Hi Brett,
Can't believe it's been 5 years since you left us. Miss you.
Love,
Aunt Pat

Hi Brett
Just sent a note to grandpa. I miss you two so much. The week ends are so long and lonely. It has been so hot this last week. Have to go check my dinner, I hate eating alone. Love you...

Happy Birthday Brett                                                                          

Love and miss you.
Aunt Pat.

Brett your grandpa Bud is with you now, I hope it is a great reunion, I miss you both but just wait, I will be with you........Love you, Grandma Naomi

Merry Christmas Brett, sure miss our talks in Grandma Betty's kitchen on Christmas day and your big old hugs.
Miss you and love you, 
Aunt pat.

Another year gone by. I am so happy I can write to you like this every time I get lonesome for you.You are missed so much by every one. That will be the way it is for me until I am up there with you.

Happy Birthday Brett,
Miss you, love you.
Aunt Pat.

Merry Christmas Brett. No white Christmas this year. lots of fog and rain.Love you and miss you...........grandma  Naomi

HI Brett, I have been thinking about you and the next few days are going to be sad ones. You keep popping into my head at strange times, so I know it is really you trying to get my attention. Love you and miss you.

Well Brett, you would have turned 40 last Saturday.  I know you wouldn't have liked it, but at least you would have been here to celebrate.  We miss you terribly!  Riley and I were at the cabin last weekend and did a toast to you and we wished you were there with us.  She and I agreed we would have had a bad hangover on Sunday morning if you would have been there to celebrate your birthday with us. I think about you every day and say good night to you everynight when I go to sleep.  Be happy and we will all see you again one day.
Love Mom

Happy birthday Brett. Had a dream about you a few months ago. You were showing me a beat up Camaro you bought and were planning on putting in a big block, Muncie, and 4.56s in the back. Miss ya buddy.

Happy birthday Brett!  Blow out the candles and have a party wih me. Don came over and we had a chat about you and wished you a happy Birthday. Love you and miss you.

Happy birthday Brett, 
We miss you ,
Love, Packy

Memorial Day 2014 is here. These are the times you are missed the most. I hope you can hear me talking to you. I am going to call St. Ambrose tomorrow and have masses said for your birthday. Try to join us if you can. Love you, miss you...........

Hi Brett - I'm trying to be strong today, but I miss you so much it's really hard.  I know you are in a good place and are happy. We are going out tonight to have a beer in your honor.  I know that's what you would want us to do.We invited our family and your friend to come...so hopefully we'll see them all. We are going to the same place as we did the night of your visitation.  It sure brings the sadness all back! I miss you.
Love Mom

Hi Brett....Well, it has been two years since that terrible day.I hope you are in a wonderful fun place playing jokes and having fun. Enjoy kid, you deserve it. I love you  more every day you are gone. Miss you.........

Miss you Brett,  fall is such a great time of year, I really wish you could be here to enjoy it. Leaves are just starting to change, but the  weather is still nice. Wish you could see our apartment, you would like it. Love you, miss you, visit me in my dreams.
 Grandma Naomi

Happy Birthday Brett, we miss you so much and think about you all the time.
Hope Abby Jo isn't giving you too much trouble.You're always in our thoughts and prayers..  Love, Packy.

Happy Birthday Brett!! I'm missing you on your special day. I Miss you and love you. Find your special angel to take care of you up there.

Hi Brett, I have thought about you a lot the last few days. We are moving and I will remember the memories we had here.The place you sat all the time on the couch, the bathroom you fixed for Grandpa when he was sick,and the wonderful holidays. I miss you. See you soon.

Another Christmas, and the start of 2013. It has sunk in now that you are really gone from me. I have made up my mind I will see you in heaven soon. I will see you there when it is my time. Love you     Grandma Naomi

Brett..........Time has gone by, but things are still not the way they were before you left us. Love you and miss you. I'm going to have to look for some jokes I can tell you. That was what you really liked.

Hi Brett - it's been 10 months now.  I miss  you more each day.  I think about you constantly.  We miss you so much and wish you were here with us. Carrie, Riley and I talk about you all the time.  We try to remember all the fun we had and all the funny things you did. Things are just not the same...we have a huge hole in our family.  I think about when you were growing up..I never imagined that would not live to be an old man.  I wanted to see your children grow up and to be a gram to them.  I'll never get that chance now.  You were cheated out of a long life. I don't understand why you had such acute heart disease at such a young age. If I had know or had any idea I would have made you go to the doctor.  You were too young to die.  We miss you and love you so much.  Love forever, Mom

A candle to light your way........I love you....Gran

Hi Brett. This is Gran, just wanted to tell you how much we missed you over Christmas. It was not the same without you to liven things up. I went to St. Ambrose to have them say some Masses for you during 2012. I'm sorry the day of your birthday and the day of your passing were taken, but I got the following day on them. Rest in Peace.

Hi Brett,
Christmas was not the same wthout you making us laugh. You and Carrie always gave Billy a funny present and Carrie always gave you a funny present and we would laugh and laugh.  I always loved going to Carrie's on Christmas Eve to open our presents we bought for each other - just our little family having fun and enjoying each other so much.  I love you and miss you - I hope you are happy in heaven.  Love forever, Mom

Brett, I think of you and and miss you all the time.  I love you, and pray for you. I trust in Jesus to take care of you for us. May you rest in peace in the arms of God.

We relocated to the Twin Cities area in 1983 from Milwaukee Wisconin for work. Jason started school in the middle of the semester. Aaron and Michael weren't in school yet. Jason's new teacher turned out to be a favorite teacher Earl and I had at Milwaukee Peckham Junior High. He was Earl's gym teacher and my study hall teacher. He assigned a friend to Jason for the week to show him around and help him out. That boy turned out to be our first Minnesota friend to our whole family. His name was Brett Mamer

My heart hurts from missing you. I don't think my life will ever be the same.  You will always be my baby boy that was so wanted and so loved.  I love you Brett!
Love forever, Mom

To Bretts family, Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday. Unseen, unheard, but always near. Still loved , still missed.

Brett,I called your company cell phone today to hear your voice. I cant belive your gone. you left a hole in all of our lives, and we all miss you . Love Dad

Brett, We will miss you so much. You made me so happy when we were together. You were so much fun, always doing, and saying, funny things. We love you.

Dear Brett, my love, my Best Friend you are going to be missed greatly! I will love you forever! I truely believe the dream that I had was from you telling me you are ok now. Even though my heart hurts now I want believe that everything is fine now. I Love You and I miss you so much!

Love your fiance Katie

My deepest sympathies go out to Bretts family and Katie,  I have known Brett for more than 25 years, He lived his life the way he wanted, and to and to the fullest. Though he was taking way to young , we all have a special memory to remember him by. Please remember all the good times he gave us and keep his memory alive. Brett will be missed greatly !!

Jenny, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Brett. My heart goes out to you,his fiancee & your family.It's the hardest loss loosing a child.11 years ago we loss our  only son Colin. It feels like a big hole in your heart but I hope with time you feel the love & support of all who loved Bret, you & your family.Time really does heal even if it seems impossible to get thru this.My thoughts & prayers are with you thru this horrific loss.
Sincerely,
Sharon Polski Petersen

Jenny. . . I am so sorry for the loss of your son Brett.  It is hard to lose a child regardless of their age. . . .I know the heartache of losing a son and want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  You are surrounded with people who love you.  Once again. . .I am so sorry.  Love Julie (McCarthy) Feldmann

I'm so sorry that Brett was taken from us so soon. He was a great guy and friend. He will be sorely missed but is now at peace in the loving arms of our Lord.

Many thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family in this time of sorrow. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

So sorry to hear about your loss..My thoughts are with you and yours at this difficult time..

When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help you find your smile. I hope many happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time.

Jenny & family,  

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need. 

Angie & Matt Thompson

Dear Brett - I miss  you terribly, I will love you forever.  My heart hurts and I want to believe you are fine.
Love Mom

Tom and Betty, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your young son and grandson. Al and Bev Mamer and family from So St Paul ( John Mamer's family)

Brett and I had alot of fun together. I will miss him alot.

Carrie, So sorry to hear about your brother, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.

I worked quite a bit with Brett at N.A.C. I am so sorry for your loss Brett was a great mentor to me and i always enjoyed working with him.

Dear Jenny and Tom, We are so sorry to hear of the untimely loss of your son, Brett.  It is so unfair to lose a child.  Our hearts are saddened.  

Take care, 

Renee and Arthur Noteboom, Cook, MN

My heart aches for all of you!  Sending you my deepest sympathy.  I will always remember the fun time we had at Liquor Lyles.  Please let me know if you need anything!  Laura

So sorry for your lose,lots of good times,many happy memories.

We were all so sorry to hear about Brett passing. He was a shining light to his family and all others who knew him. He will be missed greatly by all of us, and will always be remembered as a wonderful nephew and cousin. 
From Las Cruces New Mexico, Fort Collins Colorado, and Enterprise Alabama
Richard and Judy Slack, Teresa, Sarah, and Valerie

Dear Katie and family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Brett.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Bless you all, Barb McGrath - IPI

Sorry to hear of the loss of Brett, many good memories of him. Sending my condolences to the family

OBITUARY

Brett Brett Thomas Mamer

28 June, 1974 – 14 November, 2011

Wulff Woodbury Funeral Home

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