So many good memories and laughs shared during our college days and after.  One of the fraternity brothers you always new would lend a helping hand and be there during troubled times.  Jim will be sadly missed.  AEKDB, Mike Darch

I’m so sorry to learn of Jim’s passing.  We were in the same fraternity at Tri-State.  He was a true friend and will be missed by many.  May God bless his family in these difficult times.
Mick Walters

I had the privilege to work with Jim for many years. He was a true professional. He cared deeply about his clients and came into the office every day to service them to the best of his abilities. Perhaps, more importantly, he was a kind man, with a warm smile and good sense was humor. A true gentleman.

Very sorry to hear of Jim's passing.  

It's been 50+ years since we went to Tri-State College together and were Kappa Sigma fraternity brothers.  I'll always remember Jim as one of the "grown-ups" in our group of Brothers.  He was friendly, funny, and fun.  I would get an occasional phone call from him and it was always like we had just seen each other a few days previously and could pick right up on recent events.  I will always cherish knowing him --

AEKDB,
Marc Snyder

I couldn’t have a better friend Jim. You always answered my calls, managed my portfolio with expertise, and wanted to know about my wife Susan and my family. Especially you asked about my disabled son Todd, whom you did so much for over the years including getting him a Jim Kelly autographed football. We shared our life stories and always wished for that championship from the Bills. You told me that you couldn’t have a better friend and that our friendship meant so much to you. I have tears in my eyes trying to write this – I will miss you my friend but I will never never forget you. I will see you again.

A wonderful memory of a wonderful man. 

Rest in Peace James Sexton. Your memory lives on in our hearts forever.

Love,

Caroline

Dear Bonnie, 

My deepest and most sincere condolences. We are all so sad to hear of Jim’s passing, and are truly feeling the sorrow of this great loss. 

Our sons recalled to us some of the many stories of Jim they heard from my beloved father, Edwin. He considered Jim his oldest and best friend.  Jim was certainly there for him through all of life’s ups and downs, and stayed a devoted friend until my father’s end. He talked about Jim often, and our boys (now young men) came to know Jim vicariously through my dad. Jim was such a wonderful, wonderful man, and a solid friend to many. 

This photo is from our wedding in 1999, Winter Park, FL.  Edwin, guest and Jim.  May he rest in peace. 

Sending you strength and love.

Sincerely,

Caroline, Raed, Andrew, Brian and David AlSaleh

Bonnie
Deb and I are very sorry for your loss.  Jim was a great guy and we talked two or three times a year; most recently he called when my family and I were vacationing in Ireland in July.  Earlier this year we traded copies of a book about Gerald R. Ford.  I had his signed by the author and mailed to him.  Most importantly, Jim was a man of integrity and a joy to be around.   Many great memories from our Kappa Sigma days.
Brian and Deb McNamara

Bonnie: My wife Beverly and I met you and Jim once in a restaurant in our adjacent neighborhoods.  Our thoughts and condolences go out to you.  We lived close by and had homes built by the same builder but never physically got together.  I talked with Jim on the phone sporadically.  I want to extend our condolences and those of the Hamburg HS Class of 61. We all remember Jim affectionately. He was scheduled to attend one night of our 57th class reunion but didn't make it as a spat of his breathing problems set in and were just beginning.  Prayers to you moving forward.

Charlie, Beverly and entire Class of '61 HHS

Bonnie, this one hurts. May time pass quickly for you and your family.

He was a great man!! Love ya Bon Bon.

AEKDB

Bonnie, 

We have known Jim for 20 years but only met him once. We have lived in New England for that time and yet we still invested, and more importantly, trusted Jim. He was a gift to so many. We were blessed to know him. 

With appreciation. 

Jim and Lisa Kaveney

Bonnie,

I extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of Jim. He was truly exceptional in managing my father's portfolio over the decades. His trustworthiness, thoughtfulness, and professionalism were unparalleled in the financial world. Jim's understanding and dedication never wavered, even during challenging times. Beyond business, I'll miss our conversations about politics, the world, and the markets. Please know that my family holds Jim's work in high regard, and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Paul and Kay Taheri

Bonnie and family,

We are saddened to learn of Jim's passing. We  would convey our condolences in person but we are out of town. Jim was a consummate professional and  a true gentleman. He had a good sense of humor and a smile on his face. Our thoughts are with  you.

Robert and Eileen Fine

Jim ‘s passing has really saddened us. Aside from being an excellent financial advisor, he was a good friend and one of the nicest people I have ever had the privilege of knowing. His phone calls were always long, 45  min to an  hour, but interesting , informative and fun. He loved to talk about the Bills. He had a profound effect on our lives through his guidance and friendship.  We will really miss him. Our condolences to Bonnie and all their friends.

Ben and Helen Pelton
Nashville, TN

Our deepest sympathies Bonnie.
I was very lucky to be able to call Jim a friend. We had many rounds of golf together before he was unable to. I always remember his warm smile and the fun he added to the golf game.

Jim was a leader, friend and mentor for me and many others at Morgan Stanley and our predecessor firms.  He was a gentleman, a loving husband and friend to so many.  His legacy and memory will burn bright for years to come!

Bonnie, we are all very sorry for your loss.  Jim was a great mentor, advisor and friend for 30+ years since taking him my umpire pay checks from Lou Gehrig Little League :)   He always made the time for me took genuine interest in my development, family and plans.  We will miss him very much and thinking about you during this time.   

Love, The Geigers

Jim had been our financial consultant for our family for close to 50 years. I will always remember your stories of your fly fishing  vacation trips, your trip to Normandy, and your trips to see the Oracle of Omaha.  (Warren Buffet)

Thank you for all your sound financial advice for my Family and me over the many years, and thank you for being a friend to the family. You will be sadly missed.

Our deepest sympathy to you, Bonnie.
We were classmates of Jim at Hamburg High School. He was a great friend.

Dear Bonnie,
We send our deepest condolences to you at this very sad time. Jim was our friend, as you are, for many years which commenced many years ago from our employment in the financial services industry. He was a truly outstanding man in business and in his friendships. We have lost a great friend & will always cherish having known Jim. 
Bill & Cynthia Thuman

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James M. Sexton, III

12 February, 1942 – 15 December, 2023

Perna, Dengler, Roberts Funeral Home

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