Deeply saddened.  My thoughts are from Jr. High and High School.  Growing up across the street from each other.  Swimming in my parents pool.  All of us hanging out doing teenager stuff.  Reading your life was full.  Very cool. 
Deepest sympathies

Debbie was my mom and the most loving and kind there could ever be. She was always there for me as my biggest supporter and confidant, always listening, engaging in my life and providing an endless supply of comfort and encouragement. She loved and accepted me despite all my shortcomings and failures year after year.
I'll never forget when she got me flowers the night my acting class had a play even though I only had 1 line.
Or the time in 6th grade when she took me and 5 of my friends to a Blink 182 concert and she read the whole time.
Whenever I was in the hospital she came to visit me almost every day to cheer me up.
She would always make me pasta even though the whole family was eating mashed potatoes.
 Lately, we've had a lot of fun reading the same book while apart and then watching the movie version together when I'd come visit from Ohio.

The perfect mother. My best friend. 
She's always taken care of me and I was planning on taking care of her someday but I never got to. It's always been her, selflessly devoting her life to her family. I'm sad.

Gregg and family, my heart goes out to you.  I was shocked when I heard the news the next morning as I had just spoken to Deb and enjoyed seeing her play WVB with all the advanced guys.  She always brought a smile to my face.  Such a nice person and she will be missed by so many, especially you.  She is with your daughter.  My heartfelt condolences.    Thank God for our wonderful, supportive WVB Community.  Don't hesitate to reach out to us all.   Many hugs.  Love and friendship, Brenda and Phil Sencer

Deb was our lifeline when my sister Abbie died.  We would not have been able to get through that tragedy without her.  I wish I would’ve thanked her more.  She will be missed!

Katie Hackett

We will miss Debbie's infectious smile and laughter.

I thought of the things I loved about Debbie.  
In Spain even the police would stop to help us, taken by her look. I always made sure she got the cafe con leche because they noticed her beautiful smile and her kind friendly way and waited on her quickly. She was classy and funny and wherever we went everyone loved her.
She was sensitive and introspective. She was one of the people in my life I could share deep thoughts and ideas with. She was open to new thoughts viewed  the world with optimism and love even though she had suffered great loss. 
Her children were and always will be special to her. She loved them unconditionally and accepted them for the people they grew to be and was proud of them. Patrick, Amanda and Lindsay remember
she will be with you always in the beauty you share with her as her child, the voice you hear in your head when you ask for guidance, and the smiles of your children that meant so much to her. 
She loved her independence and the marriage she had with Greg. He allowed her to be herself and he was her rock as she was his when life was turned upside down. 
She was a loyal and good friend to those who knew her well. I felt blessed to know her, travel with her, share our babies together with many beach vacations, and laugh about things we both silently understood. 
Debbie will be forever missed.  
Kahill Gibran wrote about living:
Our living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.  This is where Debbie was blessed. 
For those of us left behind I hope she leaves us all with that gift of hers.

Dear Hamlin Family, 
I am Cindy’s sister. Debbie was an earthly angel for Cindy and Lilly. She and Julie were always on site to care for Lilly so Cindy  could work and grieve. 
Thank you for sharing her tribute movie. Debbie was a blessing to her family.
Becky Billideau Schrage

I have so many great memories of days at Bethany beach, holidays at my grandparents, watching Jeopardy, exploring Hudson, and most of all, an amazing week in Portugal and Spain where you came to visit me when I lived there.  You were always up for any adventure, so kind with Jaime’s family, interested in learning all that you could, and just plain fun and great to be around.  You always showed such an interest in my life and happiness, and were a truly awesome aunt.  I will miss you immensely, as will your husband and children.  To Uncle Greg, Pat, Amanda, and Lindsay, I am unbelievably sorry and heartbroken by this loss and what it means for each of you.  I know she has finally reunited with Darcy, and that is how I will imagine her when I miss her.  I am here if you want to share memories or just a tear.  I wish I could be there with you all, but know you are in my thoughts daily.  Love you all, Jackie

Sending much love and prayers as you make your way through this sad and difficult time.

I am at a loss for words! Deb was an angel to myself and baby Lilly after my daughter died. She was like family and my friend!
Sending peace and calm in the days ahead, just know we love you all!

Greg -  

My thoughts go out to you and your family during this most difficult and shocking time for you.  As others have said, my interactions with Deb were brief,  but she was always smiling and positive whenever I talked with, or played wvb with her.     Prayers...

Brenda and I met Deb at WVB, like so many others.  We were fortunate to play with Deb & Greg in a coed group before they moved up to advanced.  On occasion when our paths would cross at one of the pools, she always took time to say hello.  We were particularly touched when we read Greg’s post on the WVB Facebook page when he said “I always thought we would have more time.”  Our condolences to Greg and family for their loss of a beloved wife, daughter, mother, grandmother and sister.

I met Debbie at Walsh Jesuit High School.  Always had a smile on her face, even during the difficult times. Such a sweet person to talk to. Prayers for her family whose memories will always stay close to  your hearts.

They say each day is a gift, that’s why we live in the present. Hearing the news of Deb’s passing was heartbreaking to say the least. She was always there at the pool with a smile and a kind word. She will be surely missed by friends and family.

Remembering my gracious daughter-in-law, Debbie, noted for her incredible decorating and needlework skills.
Phyllis Hamlin

I had the opportunity to work with Debbie at Operation Homebound.  Her smile and upbeat personality were contagious.  So many times she would talk of her family and then let loose with the most genuine laugh.  The loss of Debbie brings to light. to me of how one person can touch so many lives and in a wink be gone.  Reminding me to let the ones around me know how much they mean to me and the Love that is shared., I won't forget her laugh any time soon.
Thank you. for sharing a bit of your life with us at OHB. Love to your family.

Ed

I was devastated to learn of Deb's passing.  She was such an awesome and sweet friend.  I still expect to see her walking across the Rohan parking lot on our way to the pool.   She was one of the guys while playing water volleyball, all of us are going to miss you !

To Greg and Deb's family, our thoughts and prayers are for you at this difficult time but my her memories bring you some comfort.  

RIP Deb

I am so sorry for your loss. As a friend of Michelle's, I have fond memories of the Rotunno girls. You were all so beautiful and vibrant! As one of 5 girls myself, I  can only imagine the pain you are going through to lose one of your  pack. I'm glad you have each other to lean on and  I pray for you and your families. Trudy (Siefert) Lampen

We loved seeing Deb at the pool, at cards, or on the pickleball court. She was always smiling and laughing - a shining light whenever we saw her.  We will miss her greatly.   We believe she is out there now, still shining down on all of us.  
We can’t imagine the pain Greg and the rest of her family are experiencing. Our hearts go out to you during this tragic time. 

Tim and Laura

My dear friend Greg,

I can't imagine what you are feeling. My prayers are for God's mercy on you and your family, and trust Deb's soul is in the care of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

While we are casual friends, I will always be there to support you and help encourage you to keep living a life that knows you and Deb will meet again in heaven.

Mike Pintar

What a joy it was to volunteer with Deb on Wednesday.  Her spirit of kindness was given to all and her big smile  made you smile !
She will be missed but I know she is spreading her joy to those she has joined in heaven.
Praying for the family.
Blessings,
Kathy Harris

It is during times of great loss that we realize how limiting words can be and how special our friends truly are.  We hope you hear the words we cannot speak, for words can do no justice to the heartache you and your family have suffered.  Please do not mourn the loss of Deb alone; we are all here for you.  She was a wonderful friend, and we will miss her so much.

My first impression of Deb was permanent!  Nothing fake about her.  Kind-hearted, friendly to everyone and primed for laughter.  She was an integral player in our Ladies' championship team. Her athletic skills hitting and blocking didn't go unnoticed and soon she advanced to D 2 at Colony.  
Out interactions were limited after that, however when she played at Rohan, setting up was not beneath her.  Lending a hand was in her nature.  So appreciated!  
Our hearts are broken and although life goes on, we don't understand how it can.  She will always be remembered for being the fun-loving tall Blondie at the pool!   
Rick and Sheila Reynolds

I am just so sad to hear of this great loss.  You are a special lady and I greatly appreciated our Samba nights together.  It's just so hard to believe but I know you are in heaven and happy.  We will miss you.  God bless!

Too soon….An angel came and called  your name and  took you by  the hand, And said a place was ready for you in heaven far above.  As friends and family gather to honor and  reminisce, The brightness of your life will surely be sorely missed.

I was sad to hear of Deb’s passing… my condolences to Greg and family. She was such a bright star shining in our little world here. A smiling face , a wry smile after she blocked your shot… she was funny, full of life and a joy to talk to about travel, whatever… 

She will be missed !

I met Deb when I first came to the Villages, 5 years ago playing water volleyball at SeaBreaze. She was always very kind, and it  brought a smile to my face whenever I saw that I was going to play on the same team. For 5 years, she demonstrated the quality  of person she was to all of us that got to call her a friend. I mourn her loss, and will miss her deeply.

I didn’t know Deb well,; hello in passing or a quick chatter on the pool deck. It didn’t take long to learn what a kind woman Deb was. Always with a big smile and laughter, splashing around the pool is how I will remember Deb. She made life look fun.   It’s hard to believe we won’t be seeing her anymore. To her family, I am so sorry for your loss. I can not begin to imagine what you must be going through right now. Please know you have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers as you navigate this heartbreaking loss. May Deb’s energy continue to bring you comfort and guide you for all eternity. 

With Love
Heidi & Mike

I always saw her, the only women playing with the men in WVB. Very powerful women. My condolences 🙏😢💕

I am just so saddened by her passing.  She was always so much fun and such a great athlete and person.  She will be surely missed by all.  Prayers to Greg and the rest of her family.  I'm still in shock as I guess everyone is.  God bless

Kathie Bivens and Jerry Herrmann

My deepest sympathy to the whole family 

Deb
You are a deeply treasured friend. Your emotional generosity and unwavering support will stay in my heart always. We didn’t get to take our trips to Asia, Jerusalem or walk the Camino de Santiago together but the places we traveled to will always hold special memories. 
If there is a heaven I know you are there happily catching up with your baby girl Darcy. Rest in peace my gorgeous friend

I am shocked and saddened to learn of Deb’s  passing.  A beautiful lady with a contagious smile.  She has touched the Hearts of many and will be missed.
With heartfelt love and sympathy,
Kristin Beaupre and Ed Raymond

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Deborah "Debbie" Lynn Hamlin

5 April, 1959 – 4 February, 2024

Dignity Memorial Life Celebration Center

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