I can't tell you how very saddened I am to hear of Jeff's passing.  Jeff, I, and 2 others were roommates at Gustavus Adolphus our senior year together.  He was a delightful, smart, fun individual; just all around a great guy.  My thoughts are with the Mains family in this very difficult and unfortunate time.

Dear Phyllis and Mike Mains...I am sending the most heartfelt condolences from Nebraska regarding the passing of your son, Jeff...my family had an occasion to be represented by him in a desperate legal battle a few years back...with Jeff's willingness, knowledge, composure and confidence, we were victorious...he never once left us hopeless or helpless...it was the most honorable pleasure to know him, and we often refer to Jeff as our Guardian Angel...I can honestly say our sorrow is deep and compassinate...May God bless and comfort you daily as you continue your journey to be with Jeff again...words are never enough...The Pattersons

Jeff was so willing to offer advice and guidance to other attorneys.  He helped me several times and I greatly appreciated him and his kindness.  I’m so sorry for your loss and wish you peace and lots of love from friends and family on this journey of grieving.  Much love to Jeff’s wife and stepchildren.

Dearest Heather, Nick and WY- You know we are always right next door. Dog and I are there for all of you. Know Jeff loved you Heather and Nick and WY and "the girls" (Bell, Sophie, Tage & Fionna).  May time help to heal your pain and faith carry you through.  Polly & Dog

Just wanted to "light" a candle today for Jeff.

Heather, I am so sorry. We love you and Jeff and the boys. We wish we could have been there. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jeff is a wonderful, brilliant and delightful person. I am honored to be a friend.

Dear Mains family,
I am in NE Iowa and received a call telling me of Jeff's death.  Mike, Phyllis and Tim, you have my deepist sympathy.  While the shock of an early death is painful and difficult to accept, know that others share in your loss.  Jeff was always helpful when I called him.

My deepest sympathy to the family of Jeff. I remember his upbeat personality coming into the courthouse. The picture selection is definitely true to him. May God bless you and keep you in this difficult time.

We were so sad to learn of Jeff's passing. Heather, Nick and Wyatt, let us know if there is anything we can do. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this traumatic time.

It was a blessing to have worked with Jeff.  He always had a smile on his face and was very helpful to others.  He will truly be missed by everyone who knew him.  To Jeff's family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.  God Bless

Jeff appeared before me when I was a Judge in Polk County and I have worked with him as an assistant Warren County Attorney.  He was a dedicated advocate for his clients.  He will be missed.

Jeff, You were as good a friend as a judge could have. You were always prepared, always courteous and always professional. You were what we most want and expect from a lawyer. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

I worked with Jeff several years when I was a county attorney.  He is a great legal mind that will be greatly missed by our community.  He was always very caring and compassionate towards his clients.  He will be greatly missed.  

Rest in peace Jeff.

We are so very sorry for this loss to Jeff's family and friends. We were Jeff's next door neighbors and while we didn't know him well, it was clear that he was a kind man that we often shared pleasant greetings with. We just wanted to extend our condolences to his loved ones and reiterate that if there is anything we can do, please let us know.

Although I didn't have any recent cases with Jeff, I heard of his acts of legal kindness to those in need.  To Jeff's family - I am sorry for your loss.

Heather and family, no words can express the heart ache, pain, and void you feel at this time.  I'm very sorry for your loss.  I do know what it's like to lose a loved one in the prime of their life.  Please know that I will be here for you as a friend to help you through this difficult time.  We continue to pray for all of you that you find peace and comfort in Gods love for Jeff and each of you.

My heart goes out to Jeff's family and friends.  He will be dearly missed.  

I have only known Jeff for a few months, but I can say with certainty that he was a brilliant legal mind.  I was amazed at his understanding of the law.  He was quick to lend a hand when someone had questions.  In just the short amount of time that I knew him, I learned so much from him.  

Rest in peace, Jeff.

Our condolences to the Mains family and the legal community at the loss of Jeff. He served as our intern the summer of 1992, and offered his kindess and legal talent to the community by starting his own practice. We've sent interns to him for advice, and he was always very kind to share his time with them. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Heather, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my deepest sympathy to you. You and our family are in my prayers.

My prayers go out to Jeff and the Mains family.

Jeff touched so many lives and always worked incessantly to protect children's rights and the rights of his adult clients. Jeff always made time to talk to others and was so very genuine and cared about them.  He will truly be missed by all of us.  You are all in our prayers.

Jeff was always friendly and kind when we'd see each other -- almost daily for many years now -- at the CABS offices. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Heather, I am so sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeff was a good man and will be missed by all of us who worked with him.  Our condolences to Jeff's family.  Ann and Lanny Fields

Mike and Phyllis,

I was so very sorry to read of your loss.

Alice Kamberg

We'll always remember Jeff as a wonderful and kind man who was always eager to help by sharing his life experiences and knowledege with others. He'll be greatly missed by many. Our prayers and deepest sympathy are with you and your family. Don't hesitate to let us know how and where we can help. 
Love,
Kathy and Ger Clifford

Mains Family, 
Jeff and I were the dearest of friends in high school. I will miss him terribly. He was a great friend, so funny, and I loved listening to him play. Heather, you had a very wonderful husband. I am sorry that we didnt stay in contact over the years. My prayers are with you all.
Dawn Vanfleet

Jeff was a brilliant attorney.  I started my law practice about a year ago and walked down the hall to meet Jeff and introduce myself. He opened his door to say hello and became my most valued resource.  I referred to him as my "walking library" because he knew everything without having to look anything up!  He helped me so much this past year, and I will always be so grateful for that.

Jeff soon grew to be a good friend to me.  I would stop by his office about once a week to chat with questions or to just talk about life.  He always welcomed me and would stop whatever he was doing to talk with me.  

Heather, I know I have not met you yet, but Jeff always spoke so highly of you.  I am so sorry for your loss.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.  My thoughts and prayers are with those who are grieving for this wonderful man.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of loss.

Jeff you will be sorely missed. I'm sorry that we didn't keep in touch as much as we should but you were a great friend to me. We had alot of fun memories. I know your in a good place & watching over us all.

I am sad that I never had the chance to meet this wonderful man, but felt that I knew him through many conversations with his mom and dad, who I love dearly. My heart goes out to all of Jeff's family and friends.  You are in my thoughts daily.

I will remember Jeff as a kind person. He will be missed. I will remember all of you in my Prayers. You are a wonderful family. Erin sends her Prayers also.

Heather, please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!  

The Katcher's

Thank you Jeff for touching our lives.  We are very sad to hear of your passing.

Our prayers are with your family.

Enid Baer

I am truly sorry for your loss.  Jeff was a kind, loving man who was well spoken and a pleasure to be around.  He will be missed.

Our prayers are with Jeff's wife and family.  

We will miss him.

Our prayers are with Jeff's wife and family.

Our heart goes out to our friend, Tim and the rest of the Main family.  We are deeply sorry to hear about Jeff passing.  As you grieve, know that we are remembering your family and honoring Jeff’s memory.

Peace, Prayers and Blessings,
Dave Adams & Lori Sandblom

Rest in peace Jeff.  I'm praying for your family.

Dear Mylan-Mains family:

                I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. My father (and mother) knew Jeff's parents quite well. Jeff and I met once or twice. His parents
were very proud of all he accomplished. May your hearts be filled with memories of good times with Jeff in the days and months to come.

                                          Most sincerely,
                                             Jeff Lowry

Jeff was one of our first tenants at CABS, he will be missed by many people in the office!!
With Sympathy, 
Court Avenue Business Suites
Sarah, Dave, Lloyd, Steve, Lisa and Tim

I remember coming to your house for dinner one day.  I think it was on the forth of July, before or after the parade.  We had a BBQ outside.  People were scattered here and there.  I was sitting at the table talking to Jeff.  I remember Jeff telling me how, you, Heather, are the light of his life and how much he loved you.  He wasn't sure about everything else in life, but he knew you were his greatest blessing.  I could feel how much Jeff loved you.  I have never forgotten that.  Jeff, I appreciate you sharing that with me.

My deepest condolences to the Mains family.  Jeff always spoke of his deep love for his wife and family and the joy he took from helping clients in difficult situations.  He will be missed.

We are deeply saddened to hear about Jeff's death.

Faith in the Lord will help see you through these difficult times.  I want to extend my depest sympathy.

I will truly miss visiting with Jeff around the office.  If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

OBITUARY

Jeffrey Thomas Mains

22 January, 1969 – 24 November, 2010

McLaren’s Resthaven Chapel & Mortuary & Resthaven Cemetery

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