I,Don't know how to say, knowing that when Bev , and I,where reffered to Harold,in 2014,to get involved in a project on Oak Island,it became a friendship,not only through Harold, it also gave Bev and myself a ,opportunity ,to have met members of his family, that friendship carried on for yrs, to helping us with needed work at our home in Charlotte. I,feel the grief ,having just saw Harold ,in Feb,telling Harold ,that, My,Beverley,just past away Jan 8th at home with me ,we had 36yrs together,I,thank Harold,for having made a dream for My ,Bev, and we were able spend that time with Harold, Harold,will be never forgotten,I'm know he touched a lot of souls, my sincere sympathy to the Spencer Family.                     Dan & Bev Blasko

I was very saddened to read of Harold’s passing.
 When my family moved to Oak Island in 1975, I had the good fortune to meet Harold as he had a locker near mine at the new SBHS.
 His friendly manner, good humor and welcoming way made me feel right at home in the high school I entered as a senior.
 As we shared the same birthday, he invited me over the night we turned 18 to have cake with him and his family but unfortunately a heavy Dec night fog came over the area and we celebrated our birthdays apart.
 He was a good friend to me in a year of great change, leaving the area I grew up in, moving to NC and changes of schools the summer of my senior year.
 I will always remember his gentle kindness and friendship.
Rest easy, brother.

RIP my friend. 
Thoughts and prayers to his family.


I was saddened to hear Mr. Spencer passed. He was such a kind and caring man. Anytime my family needed anything repaired, he was always there and got the job done professionally. He will be dearly missed. 

Patrice Frink and Family

He was everyone's friend at SBHS and always a loving and caring guy.
He was ready to help anyone.  Haven't seen him since graduation, but he left a large mark on our class!

My condolences  to  Harolds family.
 I have known Buddy for alot of years.
 He was the most laid back ,soft spoken man i have ever known.
   
 
 



Harold was a good man, a kind man; a man to be depended on.  There have never been many on this earth and now there is one less. My heart hurts for Carolyn and the kids. Our families' lives have long been entwined and hopefully will continue to be past Harold's time with us.

My sincere condolences to family and friends.  I was so saddened to hear this news. My heart goes out to you at this time of grief.

Harold and I have worked together at Sunny Point MOTSU and Brunswick Community College.  Harold was a gifted electrician and helped me a lot on job sites. He will be greatly missed.  My prayer are with you Carolyn and your family.

Buddy will never be forgotten. With deepest sympathy. R.I.P.


Our thoughts and prayers are with you Carolyn and family. He will be missed of thought of often. Know that we are thinking of you. Love you.

James and Cynthia Johnson

Heaven needed another Angel. The Spencer family always treated me as I  was a family member. Harold is the kindest, caring friend I have ever had. We knew each other over 45 years. He always took care of others without judging them. He helped the citizens of Southport as a founding member of Southport Rescue S quad. In his company business he took care of many people.  He would talk about the pride ,love he had for his family.  His nickname "Buddy" was given to him by the many friends he positively effected in life. You could call on him day or night and he would be there for you. I could write for hours about the good things in life he did. My heart goes out for all of his family members. I will never forget you my friend. Wishing his family and friends peace.

Uncle Buddy your infectious smile will be missed so much!! We love you

Sorry To Hear This .....Prayers and Hugs For The Family And Friends....

I worked with Buddy at MOTSU. He always had a smile and a kind word for everyone. I don’t believe I ever saw him upset at one thing. I knew him long before I worked with him as his sister Pat was my sister-in-law. I pray that his family and friends will find peace from this tragedy thru their memories of him. Im thinking of all of you at this time. 

Gone from our sight but never from our hearts , our
 thoughts and prayers are with you . Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs.

Love,
Jeff & Kathy Clemmons

Harold truly lived up the his nickname Buddy...he was one who always stepped up to assist others---a truly caring person, whose friendship  will be missed...Requiescat In Pace... Pax et Amor

Sincere condolences to the Spencer family. Rest in peace, Buddy!


Brenda: I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. To the Spencer family, please except my condolences and prayers. 

Kay England

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Harold Travis Spencer Jr.

30 December, 1957 – 10 April, 2021

Peacock, Newnam & White Funeral and Cremation Service

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