Alfred Costa

In loving memory of our father, Alfred Alves Costa, who passed away recently on Sunday January 21, 2024, we grapple with a mix of emotions as we reflect on his life. Alfred, or Fred as many knew him, was a complex man who leaves behind a legacy that's deeply personal to each of us who knew him.

Alfred was born on October 26, 1928, in the quaint town of Cumberland, Rhode Island, as the sixth child among eight siblings born to immigrant parents. Described as the firecracker of the family, he inherited his father's spirit and became known for his lively nature and boundless energy. He was a man of contradictions, possessing qualities that made him both beloved and challenging.

We choose to remember Fred as a father and a man who possessed a multitude of talents. He had a remarkable affinity for music, effortlessly playing various instruments, and displayed exceptional athleticism, particularly in baseball, a sport he passionately pursued from his youth well into adulthood. His extraordinary memory coupled with his gift for storytelling captivated all who knew him, making him a cherished raconteur among friends and family.

A man ahead of his time, Fred drew strength from his life experiences, approaching each day with determination and vigor, always seeking his next adventure. Among his true passions were life itself. For over six decades, he immersed himself in the world of thoroughbreds, dedicating himself to their ownership, breeding, training, and racing.

Fred's unwavering passion and determination earned him the reputation of having a keen eye for horses. With numerous starts and many victories under his belt, he became renowned as the "Marathon Man," triumphing in Ferndale’s Memorial stake race several times.

As we bid farewell, be reminded of the complexity of human relationships. We are grateful for the moments of connection, love and the lessons learned along the way. Alfred's passing serves as a reminder to cherish the good times and strive to be better every day. His legacy lives on through his love, the countless stories he shared and the memories we hold dear.

Alfred is preceded in death by his mother, Rosalina; his father, Alfredo; his siblings, Mac, Tony, Albert, Arminda, and Hilda; his grandson, Justin Wise; his wife, Betty Costa; and former wife, Mildred Costa, mother of his six children.

He is survived by his sister, Alice Donahue; his six children, Ronald, Amanda, Cynthia, Robert, Elizabeth, and Michael; his 12 grandchildren; Ruben, Bernadette, Greg, Cynthia, Jeffery, Adam, Ron Jr., Desiree, Jennifer, Crystal, Roxy, and Brandon. 18 great-grandchildren and 10 great-great-grandchildren, as well as a host of nieces and nephews.

In accordance with his wishes, a celebration of life will be held to honor Fred's memory. A private burial service for family members and close friends will take place at Oak Hill Cemetery on Friday, April 26, at 11:00 a.m., followed by a celebration of life at 12:30 p.m. at a location to be determined.

Though he may no longer walk among us, his spirit will forever remain in our hearts.