February 16, 1929 - June 6, 2023
Elizabeth Louise Black, affectionately known as Betty, passed away on June 6, 2023, at the age of 94. Born on February 16, 1929, on a farm in Independence, Missouri, she was the beloved daughter of Ethel and Henry Bessmer. Betty grew up in the company of her parents, grandparents, and her brother, Henry Jr. and a large extended family.
Betty attended William Chrisman High School and later pursued nurse’s training. However, her education was cut short when she married Elvis "Ray" Raymond Crump, Jr. at the age of 20. When Ray was called up for the Air Force reserve, Betty accompanied him to various postings in Wichita, El Paso, Sacramento, and Riverside, California. During this time, their family grew with the addition of their son, Michael Raymond, and daughters, Christy Lynn, Beth Louise (deceased) and Sherry Marie.
Tragedy struck the family when Ray lost his life during flight maneuvers out of March AFB. Betty made the decision to remain in California to raise their children in their newly purchased home in Riverside. She was an active member of Calvary Presbyterian Church, participated in her children’s various activities. and enjoyed lasting friendships with other Air Force wives. Betty expressed her creativity through sewing, knitting, gardening, cooking, and maintaining a comfortable, stylish home.
It was at Calvary Presbyterian Church that Betty met her second husband, Robert "Bob" Talbert Black, a real estate broker, and soon gave birth to another son, Paul Allen. After a few years, they moved to the town of Covelo in Northern California. Betty played an active role in the local Presbyterian Church and supported Bob's real estate business by extending warm hospitality to his out-of-town clients. She possessed a green thumb, tending to a bountiful vegetable garden and preserving its harvest through canning and freezing.
The couple later relocated to Santa Maria, where Betty found success as a saleswoman in the
retail furniture industry. Her exceptional talent led to her being awarded a trip to Maui. Eventually, Betty and Bob returned to Riverside, where she obtained a real estate license and worked as a model home representative, showcasing houses to potential buyers.
In her final years, Betty lived independently, cooking for herself despite mobility challenges. Fulfilling her wishes, Betty was at home surrounded by her family as she passed, joyously describing her final journey as "crossing the bridge" to "go home."
Betty will be remembered for her gracious hospitality, delicious meals, and the beauty of her gardens and home. She possessed a keen intellect, a deep appreciation for music, and a dry wit that charmed all who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and determination. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all those whose lives she touched.
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