I'm sorry it has taken me so long to post this,Polly hun im going to miss you like mad but i'm sure you will hear me when i need you :):)
sending my love to fred and the little one's and you know where i am if you need me hun :):)

Jeff (aka Fred/Humangus) and family; You and Bethany (aka Polly) have become my family over these past months and I want you to know that I will miss Bethany dearly. Please know that I am here for you and your family if you ever need me. My prayers are with you and your family, Lady Rebecca

sorry for the delay message on this one. I was glad to know Bethany from asl class and we became friend and neighborhood. my prayer goes out to your family and will come/visit you when i can!

Jeff (Fred), words cannot express how badly I feel for your loss.  My prayers are with you and your family.  She was the best. TimmyGene

I will miss you always and forever....My bestfriend...my sister...To Jeff, Faith, Brandon, and Holly Jo, Dean and I will always be just a phone call away...we love you all!

i am gonna miss beth so much. if u need anything , u have our number please don't hesitate to call us.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

R.I.P. Bethany...you will always be in out hearts...always our family.

My heart and thoughts go out to all whose lives were touched by Beth....

I am a friend of Andreas' From Facebook and her friend Tara Reeds' boyfriend. I am so sorry for your loss My Condolences are with you and Andrea and your entire family. I would Like to share a poem with you that was given to my mom when my father passed away it may help easy your pain. I changed to fit your family with my up most respect and love and condolences.
David Drew

A Letter from Heaven
To My Dearest Husband & Family, Some Things I would Like to Say


But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
Iam writing this from heaven; here I dwell with God above.
Here, there are no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, â€œ I welcome you.â€
â€œIt's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.As far as your dearest family, they will be here later on.
I need you here badly; for you are part of my plan.
Theres so much that we have to do to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do,
And foremost on the list was to watch out and care for the you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
When you think life on earth, and all those loving years,
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain,
Remember that there would be no flowers, unless there was no rain.
I wish that I could tell you all what god has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing for certain, though my life on earth is over,
I am closer to you now then I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb,
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too,
That as you give unto the world, the world will give unto you.
If you can help someone who is in sorrow and pain.
Then you can say to God at night, My stay was not in vain.
An now that I am content that my life was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I may someday smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low.
When you are walking down the street and you have got me on your mind, I am walking in your
Footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it is time for you to go from that body to be free,
Remember you are not going you are coming here to me.

With all my love,
Bethany
November 4th, 2010

May God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.You and your children are in our prayers.

Praying for all of you in this time of great sadness.

Phyllis, Jeff and family; hold on to your memories and let them guide you during this time of sadness.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

Peggy Schlattweiler

Jeff, I was shocked and saddened when Dan told me of your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  Here is a big hug from your uncle Tim

We love you and your beautiful children. You have our deepest sympathy and we will do whatever we can to help you.

Love,
Emily, Dan, Claire and Jack Wright

What a wonderful tribute to such a wonderful friend. Bethany was always more like a sister to me. We've been through a lot both together and apart. I will miss her terribly. All my sincerest condolences to Jeff, Faith, Brandon and Holly and also to Mary, Mike, Andrea and the rest of the family.

My condolences to the family and friends of Mrs. Bethany James.  Her pictures reveal that she was full of laughter and joy.  In the midst of your sorrows, I hope you are all encouraged by the happy memories you shared with Bethany.  God bless you all and may she rest in peace.

Jef just heard sat. eveing as you know beth was part of the family and will be greatly missed.   Our prayers are with you and the children.   Diane and Ken Pinkard (woodriver)

Jeff, please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.  I am praying for you and the kids.  We love you!

Jeff & kids....I am so very sorry. I just don't know what to say except I'm so sorry and you will all be in my prayers.  If you need anything at all please don't hesitate to let me know.  Love and prayers....  Stephanie Cagle

Jeff our prayers are with you and the children, if there is anything we can do ,anything at all please let us know . love always Franki and Kim

My heart is very heavy for my friend Jeff and the entire family. At times the lord takes the perfect angles early. 

God bless the James Family,
Brad Pedersen

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Bethany J. James

2 April, 1978 – 4 November, 2010

Hoffmeister Colonial Mortuary

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