To the Gupta/Lindsey Family...
Words just cannot express the sadness I feel right now!! I met Sarah and her husband, Sumit at Duke at the beginning of her illness.  I worked with one of her oncologist and assisted with making her appts and referrals to other physicians.  I was cleaning out my emails today and I ran across an old email that Sarah sent to me back in January 2011.  She was so excited about the possibilities of new treatments for her and very excited about setting a new wedding date.  Sarah's smile was contagious and her beauty not only glowed from the outside but from within.  After reading this old email, I said let me see if my friend is on FaceBook so I googled her name.  I was so hurt when I saw her name with obituary beside it!!! Yes, I did cry and cried even more when I read her journal!!!  I am so sorry I am late with my condolences! I know she kept her faith and I know my friend is an Angel now. To all her family and friends, my prayers are with you and she will forever hold a place in my heart.

Sarah and I sang together in the Accidentals, and even before I met her, I admired her amazingly powerful voice.  What a gift she had—to sing hymns, R&B and Mary Chapin Carpenter with such ease!  

I will remember forever the day that the Accidentals came together to sing with Sarah.   We laughed and reminisced, picking right up with one another, even though 10 years had passed since we were all together.  It was an incredible, life-affirming day, filled with love, friendship, and the gift of music.   That day was a gift to all of us, and one that I will hold dear to my heart.      

Incidentally, when I dug out my Accidentals binder in preparation for our reunion, I found a small note tucked into the back pocket.  It was a note that Sarah had passed to me during a rehearsal many years ago.  I was going through a break-up at the time, and the message from Sarah was one of love, validation and encouragement.  That note is my tangible reminder of how freely she shared her love with those around her.  

I give thanks for Sarah, her friendship, and all of the lessons I continue to learn from her beautiful life.  I will keep all of the Lindseys and the Guptas in my prayers.

There is nothing more wonderful and gracious then being part of a person's life over the years. It's been a joy watching you mature into such a beautiful woman. We thank God for that priviledge and are awed by all the stories of how you have touched others even in so short a life. It's been a blessing to see how God has blessed you to be such a witness of His Love. Our prayers of thanksgiving continue for your life and prayers of support and continued guidance for Sumit. God bless you both, both here and forever.

Doug and Nancy

Sarah possesses a true and rare beauty through and through.  One of my lasting memories of Sarah was singing "Oh Holy Night", just the two of us, outside of one of our Accidentals holiday parties.  I have always thought of Sarah each holiday season when the song comes on and will continue to remember Sarah's grace and beauty both during Christmas and throughout the year.  Sending my warm wishes and continued prayers for the Lindsey's and Gupta's.

With fond memories of life on St. Peters Lane, our thoughts and prayers are with the Lindsey Family.

My sweet cousin Bill, 

A large part of my heart has always belonged to you.  So that part has been torn and broken as I stood by as helplessly as the rest of us while you and Kathy lost your precious baby girl, Sarah.  I'm happy that you had her for the time that you did, and oh, what a light she clearly was to all of us!  While my heart will always hurt for the two of you, and for Lori and Sumit, I'm gratified by the comfort that you have in your faith, and by the time I've had to reconnect with you.  I will be here for you, if you need me.  I love you all.

Blair Robertson

Let us pray. 

 

Almighty God, we remember before you today your faithful servant Sarah; and we pray that, having opened to her the gates of larger life, you will receive her more and more into your joyful service, that, with all who have faithfully served you in the past, she may share in the eternal victory of Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

 

Faithfully, 

 

Paul +

From: Fred Vollat 
Sent: Wednesday, November 09, 2011 2:44 PM
To: Sumit Gupta
Subject: Condolences for the Passing of Sarah 

Sumit:

It is with great remorse that I offer my condolences and support to you and your family regarding the passing of your loving and beautiful wife, Sarah. It goes without saying what a special, wonderful person and soul mate Sarah was for you on this earth. She touched many lives in her oh too short of life; but that is the legacy that she leaves behind. It was the quality and not the quantity of living that she portrayed all so well for her entire life. Her many talents, such as teaching and singing, will be missed by her students, relatives, and friends; but she will never be forgotten. Know that Sarah is now in the loving arms of her creator and God; He chose to call her home at this time; and know that she is whole again, without that constant pain and agony that she endured as a fighter to the end; know that she is kicking up gold dust on the streets in heaven, waiting to show us around when it is our time. She is in a better place, and try to find some solace in that fact in order to be better than the circumstances.

Which brings me to you. Sumit, I affirm you and applaud you, for being such a loving, supportive, compassionate, caring soul mate and husband to Sarah during her times of need and struggle. You had your priorities in order, being there for her when she needed you, although she also had much support from other family members and friends. You did everything possible in trying to cure Sarah's disease, researching all the alternative as well as modern western medicine suggested paths of treatment. You left no stone unturned. Throughout the entire time, you made Sarah comfortable throughout many difficult circumstances, and she knew that she was loved by you and all those around her. Her 31st birthday was memorable for all; again Sarah saw, heard, felt, tasted, and even smelled all of the love around her here on earth, especially by you. I know that you and Sarah had many wonderful talks and discussions about life, gaining a better perspective and realization for it; and I thank God that you and Sarah were surrounded by both of your families throughout the course of the journey; and know that Bev and I are always here for you as well.

I bid you peace, prayers, love, and blessings through our God, who sustains us at all times.   

     Fred E. Vollat
         InterCoastal Realty
         SAGA Construction
         Land Development
980 Corporate Drive, Suite 100
Hillsborough, North Carolina 27278


Dearest Sarah,
You were someone that really lived every day to the fullest. You were so much talented and I know that in Heaven too it will live on in you. 
While I know that words are only a small gesture of support, I want you to know that your spirit has touched many people's lives as it has mine. 
You were my patient become  friend that I cherished. While I don't know your family very well but in just two meetings I had with you and your family I saw the symbol of humanity in every member of the family, that touched me very deeply.
 Sarah  you were so well-respected and everyone that I meet in the family always had such kind things to say about you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Words feel inadequate at a time like this ... just know you all are loved and supported by me.

 I wrote this verse for you to Mark my thoughts - 
"Her life earnest, her actions kind,
 A willing hand, an active mind,
 Anxious to please, loath to love,
 A loving patient and faithful friend." 
With sympathy
Dr, Farokh Master

Bhavyata on November 17, 2011 at 8:42 pm said: 
I've never met or talked to Sarah bhabhi. I don't know if she was even aware about who I am. All that I knew about her was through Sahib. He would always tell me how amazing she was. In her last days I felt a sense of being attached to her and prayed for a miracle that would redeem her of the pain she was in. And God did heal her. She is now in the most beautiful place and is being looked after by God himself. I wish we could have met one day.
Rest in peace…

melvin randall on November 13, 2011 at 12:47 am said: 
this is the message i sent to Mrs Gupta 4 days before her (Passing)
hello, Mrs Gupta(Mrs Lindsey)
i am.Melvin.. don't quit know if you remember me?but i was in your 6th grade class..i have been worried sick about you since the day i heard the news.you were an amazing teacher to me and helped me out so much.i looked forward to coming to school to see you everyday:)the day you told us you weren't coming back i cried when i went home and i never knew how big of an impact you made on my life..you have all my prayers..i love you soo much..just thinking about it right now just makes me want to cry.but i have Faith,we all have faith for you..God is an awesome God and your beautiful days are numerous and plentiful..to come..:)if i could take the pain for you i would..just keep on smiling that gorgeous smile i will never forget and keep your head up..and your days when your feeling bad or in pain..just imagine me smiling at you..i love you so much and i would love if i could see you one day…i still go to New Kent and i am in 11th grade now..:)oh what a beautiful sweethearted boy you inspired me to be..i loe you i love i loveyou..never forget:)peace,love,good health and happiness?

Daniel Jenkins on November 12, 2011 at 1:27 am said: 
My thoughts and prayers to the Gupta and Lindsey family. I feel fortunate to have met and known Sarah during our time at William and Mary. She was always so kind, friendly, and fun. While we miss her here on earth, I am sure that she is being welcomed with open arms in what lies ahead and will be there to welcome us when our time comes.

The Flanders on November 11, 2011 at 9:33 pm said: 
Requiscat in Pace Sarah.

Dearest Gupta and Lindsey Family, 

May the peace which comes from the memories of your love with Sarah comfort you now and in the days ahead. We are deeply sadden by the loss of Sarah, she was truly a beautiful individual inside and out. We are thankful to have gotten to know her. Please accept the donation made on behalf of Sarah to St. Peter's Episcopal Church Book of Remembrance as a token of our heartfelt condolences.

Sincerely, Ani Sandhu and the Ace of Events Staff.

Kathy Evers on November 10, 2011 at 5:18 pm said: 
Sarah (I knew her as Miss Lindsey) taught my son, Skylar Evers, at New Kent Middle School. She was one of his all time favorite teachers and he was very upset when he heard of her passing. As a Mom, I can say she was the type of person I wanted to be an influence on my child. She was sweet, gentle & kind with her students and we loved having her in our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with her family as they go through this difficult time. What a beautiful, sweet angel she was to us all!

Jon Summerton on November 10, 2011 at 3:08 pm said: 
Sumit, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Although I never met Sarah, I know she was a very special persosn. Please accept my condolences. Jon

Archana Gupta on November 10, 2011 at 3:03 pm said: 
Sarah, her infectious SMILE, her radiance, her genuine love for everyone she met was incredible. I truly believe only ANGELS have that ability. On October 17th 2011, we drove down to spend some time with Sarah & Sumit. We were all looking at the pictures from the wedding and joking around. Sarah was not in the best of the health. She could barely move around. Among all this noise and chatter, she was the ONLY one to notice that my mother-in-law was having difficulty moving her right hand.
She asked me “What happened to her hand” and I replied “Her hand is a little stiff from a sprain she suffered in India”. Sarah had a collection of the oils. She read the booklet for 30 minutes to figure out which oil will be the best for her condition. She not only wanted but massaged my mother-in-laws hand for her quick recovery.
Sarah had the ability, the gift from the GOD to take care of the people, to be concerned about them, give the importance to the others before her and uplift their spirits. Her positivity towards life is an inspiration to all of us. Her FAITH in the GOD has reinforced my faith and belief in the God. I am able to appreciate his blessings in our day to day life. Once in a life time comes a person in your life that inspires, motivates and leaves an impression for a life time. Sarah is that person for me; she had a short but meaningful life. She accomplished much more than most people do in a life time. YOU will always live in our hearts.

Delores Sheffield on November 10, 2011 at 2:39 pm said: 
I will always remember the little girl dancing her heart out at a ballet recital, the high school beauty, dancing and singing in a skit for the primary school kids, and the loving 7th grade teacher who taught two of my children, not just about history and English, but about how to be better people. Sarah was such a beautiful person. She has touched many lives, and has been an inspiration to so many, who are better people because of the love she has given. Sarah, you are a beautiful angel. Rest in Peace.

Taylor Walsh on November 10, 2011 at 4:05 am said: 
Mrs.Lindsey/Gupta is one of the teachers i can say I've loved. I DO love. Even though I only knew her for months it felt like I had known her forever. History was always my favorite class. She never put down a person or was spiteful. She loved all of us as her own children, To be truthful we were, and we loved her back. I don't think well ever know how much she really did love us. Every day i walked into class she would have a bright smile on her face and greet everyone with a heart-warming smile. She didn't just teach us about History, she taught us about life. She taught us not to judge people on the differences in their culture and exterior, but by the content of their heart. Every time she walked into a room it seemed to light up! Litterly. She had the most beautiful, stunning Indian outfits, and would tell us its journey and how it came to be hers. I loved her class and when she taught us about Pakistani and Indian cultures her face would light up and her stories would come to life. She is the most beautiful spirit i have ever seen, inside and out. Mrs.G is not a person you will forget easily. One day I can into class and was really upset that morning. No one else said I looked upset, but when she saw me she asked in the most caring voice if I was okay. That's just the person Mrs.G was. She was there for all of her students. She was the most selfless, kindest, most caring, beautiful, person i have ever met. She did not want us to know what she was going through, she did not want us to be sad for her. She wanted the very best for everyone because she loved us so much. Now her beautiful soul is in heaven. She is a beautiful angel now. I am lucky to have known Mrs.G. I hope i can teach the lessons she has taught me and to inspire as she has inspired me. She will be forever in my heart. I will keep the family in my prayers. I will always remember you Mrs.G

Elizabeth Bailey on November 10, 2011 at 2:13 am said: 
Mrs. Gupta was one of the best teachers I've ever had. She was always there for me and everyone else. She also inspired us to not give up on anything from homework to life skills. She will always be my 7th grade history teacher (even though we had substites for awhile).
I'll always miss her and she'll always be in my heart.

Brandy Lamberth on November 9, 2011 at 11:13 pm said: 
Sarah was so beautiful from the inside out. She had the most wonderful smile that could change your whole day. I remember watching her dance in Bye Bye Birdie and just being in awe. I knew she loved to dance but never knew untill I watched that play how wonderful she was at it. She had such an angelic voice as well, and I know she is singing with God and the other angels now. I have not seen Sarah since High school, but we have kept in touch through Facebook. I really wish we would have kept in touch better.. I will miss her so much. I am praying for Sumit and Sarahs family that God wraps his arms around them in this time of healing. Sarah is finally without pain, and is one of Gods beautiful angels!

Brandy Doughty on November 9, 2011 at 9:59 pm said: 
Sumit's words along with her mother's words spoke volumes of the type of person Sarah was. She is the type of person we should all strive to be.
I remember being in Bye Bye Birdie with her in our high school production. I had NO idea how talented she was! She sang beautifully and danced so well.
I wish I could have kept in touch with her after high school.
She was an inspiration in life and now she is in her death! I can only hope that I can have the faith she had in our Lord.
Sing and dance well for our Lord, Sarah. I know he is well pleased with you!
To all of her family, my prayers are with you!

Connie Gray on November 9, 2011 at 7:05 pm said: 
As I read Sumit's and Sarah's mothers comments-it really hit home with me. I so much believe in everything that was said and shared. I will remember how Sarah chose to live her life with all the physical pain and challenges-her strong will to survive-her ability by her faith “God's will will be done”. To have that kind of faith, belief, and love is what will see us all through everything that is put in front of us and enable us to enjoy the time we have on this earth and know we will all be in a better place one day and be together. I love you Sarah!

Harrison Ellinwood on November 9, 2011 at 6:51 pm said: 
Our thoughts are with the family, friends, loved ones and everyone that was touched by her. Sarah will continue to be a blessing on this earth. In the precious time that she was with us she had such a profound and positive impact in the lives of so many through her strength, perseverance, and unwavering faith. She taught us all to be thankful every day, appreciate every moment and cherish those you love. I know that our lives and the special moments with our family and loved ones have gained new luster by Sarah's life. I am thankful to know that she is now no longer confined by the discomfort here, and that her angelic smile is shining down upon us now.
The Lindsey & Gupta families have shown us all such great strength and affirmation of faith through this entire journey. Kathy has an incredible gift to make others feel comforted even when it would seem it is her turn to grieve. She shows us how to find peace in knowing that Sarah has done God's work here as He intended. I also continue to be encouraged by Sumit's grounded perspective, his ability to see the light where others may only see darkness, and the foundation of his character that provides him with a positive outlook in every situation he encounters. Sarah's legacy and spirit continues to live on in all of us, and may we all continue to celebrate the magnificence of her life.
Our hearts go out to you all…with love from the Ellinwoods.

Sumit,
I am very sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cooper Hawk Family

Judy Fontana on November 9, 2011 at 6:32 pm said: 
Earth has lost an amazing, strong, intelligent, beautiful woman and heaven has gained an angel. We will miss you, Sarah Lindsey Gupta.

Emily Anne Evelyn on November 9, 2011 at 3:59 pm said: 
I always believe everything happens for a reason. I am not sure what that reason may be but I take comfort in knowing that God does. I did not see Sarah that often but whenever I did she always gave me a big hug and had a huge smile on her face. She was such an inspirational woman. All throughout her sickness she wrote such positive writings and always looked on the bright side of things no matter how much pain and discomfort she was in. She was so encouraging and I know for me she has made me realize to take nothing for granted and appreciate every day. One of my favorite memories of Sarah was down at the White House one night I was with my brother Patrick and had to get ready for a Halloween party. I am not sure how old I was but she helped me with my makeup and I remember thinking wow I would love to have her as a big sister  I pray for all of the family and friends and I hope you find comfort and strength during this difficult time. Much love to Bill, Kathy, Lori, David and Sumit.

The Rodriguez Family on November 9, 2011 at 3:11 pm said: 
Sumit, Please know in this time of Sarah's passing you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. 

Davin & Family

Neeru Pathepuram on November 9, 2011 at 1:26 pm said: 
The last time I saw Sarah and Sumit was at Amit and Shweta's wedding reception. Sarah sang beautifully. Sumit and Sarah were glowing in their announcement of their own engagement. I will remember Sarah as she was that night. I grew up with Sumit and knew her through him and his family. When I found out about her illness and the severity of it, I reached out to her. Sarah's strength and graciousness was overwhelming. I read her blogs and she was truly inspirational. I enjoyed even the smallest contact with her. I was touched when she took the time to “like”a picture of me or my kids. I am grateful at the opportunity to come and say goodbye to Sarah.

Susan Bates on November 9, 2011 at 12:24 pm said: 
I didn't know Sarah well personally, but felt a closeness to her as we have many common friends and I love her mother Kathy so very much…I know from experiencing Kathy's warmth and comfort given to my father and our family during our difficult time that Sarah must have been a wonderful person . I remember seeing her at one of my daughter's events in middle school and just being overwhelmed at her beauty and presence. I am so grateful that this young woman had and gave such love in her life…many who live long lives don't have that legacy. Rest in Peace dear soul!

Ambika goel on November 9, 2011 at 12:07 pm said: 
May god bless your dear Sarah.. You have lead a wonderful life and made ir wonderful for yourself and for everyone around you till your last breath. Have a great life…. And may sumit gather all the strength which he needs to keep himself going. 

Love and regards
Ambika goel

Kerry Russell on November 9, 2011 at 3:53 am said: 
Sarah, what a treasure to have known you! Thanks for who you are and for your great example of faith in Jesus! Reading everyone's comments makes me realize what a ripple effect you have had in this world. Thank you for loving life, pursuing teaching, and making connections with those around you. What a beautiful woman and a sweet soul you are! So glad you're fully healed in the amazing presence of our Lord Jesus Christ! I am reminded of Ecclesiastes 3, it is our time to mourn the loss such a wonderful person, but it is Sarah's time to dance! Much love and prayers go out to Sarah's family and friends. May you seek God and find comfort in this difficult time.

Cindy Walsh on November 9, 2011 at 3:18 am said: 
My thoughts and prayers to Sarah's family and friends. May God's peace be with you all.

Melissa Haynor on November 9, 2011 at 3:17 am said: 
I remember the week you started at FA–you showed the kids how to take notes using pictures. I had students who had never been excited about school showing me their picture notes and telling me all about what they were learning in social studies! You were such a wonderful part of our team–I'll never forget our team meetings that always wound up being so much fun, popping into your room or standing in the hall and talking to you in the morning, our conference at UNC, your smile, hearing your laughter from next door, your strength and amazing faith in God. I miss you so much. 

Sumit, Mr. and Mrs. Lindsey, and the rest of the Guptas and Lindseys–I'm praying for you with all of my heart.

love, Melissa

Malini Khanna Vasisth on November 9, 2011 at 3:11 am said: 
I am so sorry to hear about Sarah. I remember meeting her over the years at Sumit and Amit's home in northern VA. She was a lovely person and had a beautiful voice. The love between Sarah and Sumit was undeniable. My thoughts are with Sumit and Sarah's family.

Patrick Evelyn on November 9, 2011 at 3:10 am said: 
One of the most difficult things I have ever had to do is to sit here and write my goodbye to you, Sarah. It is still unbelievable to me that you are gone. But, I know you are not hurting anymore. Your pain and suffering are over now that you are in Heaven. And as I sit here and try to begin to put my thoughts and words together on paper, I have this feeling that you are hearing what I have to say. A feeling that you are reading what I am writing. So, Sarah, I am writing this to you.

We have known each other since primary school. But, since I don't remember much of anything before primary school, I say we have known each other forever. Looking back, it seemed we were in the same class every single year! And, as we reminded each other often, we had math together every year right through our Senior year of high school. Pre-Algebra through Math Analysis. You were always a lot smarter than me and there is no way I would have survived without your help, Sarah! Doesn't it just seem like yesterday? Remember the General Assembly project? We were partners and I do believe you did most of the work, but I still managed to get half the credit! We put that thing together in my parent's dining room. We had such a great time doing that (actually, it was probably more fun for me than it was for you:)).
Just sitting here thinking back, don't you think it is kind of funny how we became so close? I know we were friends in elementary school and middle school, but it seems we really got close in high school. And the funny thing to me is that we kind of hung out with two different groups of friends. But, that didn't matter with us. We always found time to talk and joke around and enjoy each other's company. I always felt I could talk to you about anything at all. you would always listen. you were always there. for me, it was a true friendship in every sense of the word. Having so many classes together definitely contributed to our closeness because I always remember how happy I was when we would talk over the summer and find out our class schedules were similar. and remember talking about College. We both wanted to go to William and Mary. I will never forget the day I received my acceptance letter in the mail and calling you right after I opened it hoping that you received your letter as well. I was so excited when I found out! Not only were we going to the same college, our dorms were going to be right next to each other! 

Our friendship continued to grow and get stronger at William and Mary. I remember going over to each other's dorm rooms and hanging out. we would sometimes try to study together, but most of the time we would just end up talking, ordering a pizza, having a couple of drinks, and just enjoying each other's company. Because our schedules were a little different, I remember there were times when we wouldn't see each other for a week or two. that didn't matter. one of us would call the other up and we would go grab lunch or dinner or a movie and would instantly catch up on each other's lives in a matter of minutes. that is what I loved about you, Sarah. you didn't change a bit from our days back in New Kent. you were the same Sarah. always smiling. always there to listen. always there for me. All of my college buddies used to tell me how much they thought of you and how lucky I was to have you as a friend. They were right. I was very lucky. And I remember when we went to the Lessons and Carols Christmas service at Bruton Parish in Colonial Williamsburg. We had a wonderful time at such a beautiful service. No matter how busy our lives were in college, we always, always found time to get together and hang out. those are the times I cherish and remember.

Looking back, college just flew by, didn't it? it's crazy thinking about it. After college, I went to Charlottesville for a year or so, but we always stayed in touch. our friendship never changed. it didn't matter if it was a week or six months in between times when we saw each other, we always remained close. I became very close to your amazing family and had such a great time with you all going to the Christmas lighting in Williamsburg and even enjoyed helping y'all move from New Kent to the house in York County (although, I was a little upset you guys had to move so far away!) All of the Oyster Roasts and the times at church and hanging out in Williamsburg with you are memories I will carry with me forever.

And Sarah, you picked a wonderful man to marry. Sumit is a great guy and I know he loved you and cared for you as much as any man possibly could. you were a beautiful bride at your wedding and we all had such a great and exciting time and I was so happy to see you happy considering all you had been through. you were so strong throughout your fight with cancer. even when you were sick, whenever we would talk, you would still be concerned with how I was doing and ask about Jessica and my new baby girl. You never changed. I want to teach my daughter to be a friend to others as you have been a friend to me. You always put yourself last and that was a character trait you had from the beginning. I am positive everyone who knew you will attest to that. And everyone that knew you is a much better person because of it. 

Sarah, I am sure I left out some of the great times we shared. You know I was never that great of a writer, but I feel better getting this out and sharing this with you. I want to thank you for being such a great friend to me. Thank you for being there for me and teaching me to be a better person. You were someone I could always count on. You strengthened my faith in God and I believe now, more than ever, that He has a plan for us all. You will forever hold a special place in my heart and I will never forget you. I know I will see you again one day and when we meet again, we can sit down and catch up like we have always done. Until that day comes, Sarah, I will always miss you and always love you and your memory will live with me forever. 

Love Always,
Patrick

MarinaMarina on November 9, 2011 at 2:02 am said: 
Mrs. Gupta is a person I will always remember. I had her for a short time, but I learned so much from her. She made me love history even more. She made me see History in a different way. Mrs. Gupta had a different way of teaching. She made us draw pictures, and she challenged us. I loved the way she taught. She was a very beautiful person from the outside and the inside. She was so positive and outgoing, just her smile lifted my spirits. Mrs. Gupta was a very loving, caring, and kind person. She will always be remember. When I left for High School, I missed her, but now I will even miss her more. All her students loved her and will miss her. Her family will be in our prayers.

Denise Kent on November 9, 2011 at 1:24 am said: 
Sarah was by far one of our most gifted teachers. She was able to demand the most of her students in tandem with nurturing a child's natural love for learning. She exposed our students to different cultures and people. She was a true teacher. 

Sarah was also know for her bangles of bracelets, supermodel hair and beautiful make-up by many students. Ironically, I too envied her neatly sculpted eyebrows many a days.

Sarah will be missed by students-past and present, parents and staff at Franklin Academy.

Emily Clay Evelyn on November 8, 2011 at 10:17 pm said: 
Sarah was a beautiful and talented young woman. I have known the Lindsey's for many years. My son Patrick and Sarah wee in school together and then attended William & Mary. They had a very special friendship and were always close. When I heard about Sarah's illness I couldn't understand why someone so young could be this sick. Sarah always said that God had a special plan for her and I believe he did. Her faith and zest for life was remarkable. I know she is a beautiful angel with God in Heaven smiling down on her family and friends. My thoughts are with all the Lindsey's and the Gupta's at this difficult time. Love you always Sarah!!

Suzanne Montague Ridgill on November 8, 2011 at 9:50 pm said: 
To my Sarah, “I don't even know where to begin. You were as beautiful as your life, as your story, as your smile, as your heart. You changed my life friend and I am a better person because of you. I will miss our walks, hanging out after school, hearing my phone vibrate and hoping it's you, our long chats about everything and nothing at all. I will miss you….all of you right down to your bangles and your heels. I'm so happy we became even closer over this past year. You fought a long hard battle girl, and you never lost your faith! You are my boo, my lil mama, and you taught me to fight and to look on the bright side even if you have a tantrum first (because that's ok). You are still the best History teacher I've ever witnessed and you touched the lives of so many children for so many years! We are all better people because of you friend. I'm going to miss you, but I'm going to keep you close, I promise.”
Rest peacefully dear friend.
Love always, Suzie

Dear Mrs. Gupta,

I love you so much. You will always be in my heart, in all of our hearts. I miss you. I wish you were here with us. Every time i think of you, I see your smile, I hear your laugh, and my heart hurts. I know your here with us. I will be praying for you and your family for the rest of my life. You are an amazing person, and an awesome teacher. You reached out and touched all of our lives somehow, in some way. You helped all of us. R.I.P.

Forever in our hearts, and our lives.

- Madeleine Peoples ? (student)

Mary & Hawkins Bowman on November 8, 2011 at 9:26 pm said: 
Sarah will always be an inspiration to so many, her faith and kind words comforted me in my time of hopelessness, after the loss of our son. And She will always be remembered, and loved…

So deep in prayer for your family, that you may feel and overwhelming sense of peace and comfort in these upcoming days and weeks…

Mary Bowman
New Kent, Virginia

Maha Rehman on November 8, 2011 at 9:22 pm said: 
I will never forget Mrs. Gupta. Even though I had her for half a year for history, she is by far the best history teacher I have ever had. She made history way more exciting. After the year was over, I still went every morning to see her. She was the most amazing teacher, and many more teachers should be like her. She was always in a good mood. Always open for hugs. She was beautiful inside and out. Mrs. Gupta, I missed you and I now I miss you more. You are in a better place  That's all that matters. If I ever look back into my school life, Mrs. Gupta will always be in it. I remember when it was close to her wedding, I would ask her all about it, and she would show me her clothes and her excitement was amazing. Best of all, she was so understanding. I could share anything with her

Anousheh on November 8, 2011 at 9:12 pm said: 
I am so blessed to have known Sarah. The OBX just won't be the same with out you. I will always have you close to me in my heart. I am going to miss you sooooo much but i am at ease knowing you are no longer in pain or suffering. Thanks for the good times the laughter and the memories I will cherish forever. Till we meet again my sweet Sarah RIP.

S on November 8, 2011 at 8:53 pm said: 
I am so very fortunate to have met Sarah through her loving sister Lori. I remember Sarah and Lori spending hours on the phone talking through problems, and Lori always turning to her sister for help and advice. I remember how happy Sarah was to share in Lori's wedding to David, and how happy Lori was to return the favor. Sarah is an inspiration to all and her beautiful soul lives on in each and every person who had the pleasure to meet her.

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Arpit Gupta on November 8, 2011 at 8:16 pm said: 
Not among d fortunate ones who have met you… But d unending stories about you from one and all in d family nevr made me feel dat gap… All I wana say in ur memory is dat U hav been a marvellous personality and will always be remembered and loved for the rest of our lives…
As it is said, “whom God loves most, die young.”
Sumit's unfathomable love for U, m sure, would giv strength and courage to all in d family. I say this after reading one f the most fascinating lines by Sumit:
Quote, “I look forward to our next meeting. There is no rush.” Unquote
So our Dearest Sarah, its not d end… We shall meet again…
R.I.P

Rose Davis on November 8, 2011 at 8:11 pm said: 
Outside of poem for, I have to say. . .

Ms. Gupta, next to one other teacher was the best teacher I have ever had. Something about her just made all of us listen, we all wanted to know what she had to say. I remember when we had been given that project that we could do ANYTHING whatsoever. I remember how thrilled she was to see it was in poem form, because all the time, majority of the time, I had written her poems.

Something about how considerate she was, the way she had a love for every single nationality, every race and every student. The Lord knows she LOVED her students. And I was blessed enough to be one of them and to be a part in her life.

Looking back, I see how concerned she was for others, she always wanted to keep her appearence up and she always wanted everyone to think it was okay, because she knew that everything would always work out.

Sometimes it's just the little things that I am going to miss. The smaking of her gum or the gingle of her bangles when she moved her hand. And last year, when we had those subs. . . it just didn't feel right.

Mrs. Gupta, you will always and forever be in our hearts, and I have no doubt where you are and how happy you are to be rejoined with our Savior. . . and one day, I'll see you again, and we'll all be just as happy as you are right now.

You will forever be in our hearts.

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Rose Davis on November 8, 2011 at 8:01 pm said: 
For Your Loving Memory

For your loving memory
For the smiles I keep dear
For the plans, the purpose and the flat out right,
to hold what you gave to us near.
For the future and bright eyed image
that you kept close to your soul,
you assuered that once we made the choice
we could stand proud and bold.
For the history lessons you taught
and oh so very much more,
for the daily happiness you gave to us
to remember what we live for.
For the moonlight in the evening
for the sunshine in the day,
but to have you back one more time
I'd throw it all away.
For your loving memory
for the smiles I keep dear,
for the plans the purpose and the flat out right,
Mrs. Gupta, we will always hold you near.

Vladimir and Elena Zrajevsky on November 8, 2011 at 7:08 pm said: 
We met Sarah once at Amit and Shweta's wedding 2.5 years ago. She was one beautiful and happy young woman. And it could not go unnoticed that she was mutually in love with at that time her husband-to-be Sumit.
We are so sorry to know that Sarah's passed away. Our condolences to Sumit, Sarah's parents and the whole Lindsey-Gupta family. We've been reading messages on Sahar's Facebook page this morning and were amazed how many people love and care for her.
Rest in peace, Dear Sarah.

Kellie Hazelwood on November 8, 2011 at 5:47 pm said: 
I have known Sarah for a very long time, when I was in elementary school she use to come to our class and teach us different things and she made learning it so much fun. She went to school with my eldest brother so during my middle school years she was always around, and she even worked for my mom in williamsburg for a while. She was truely one of the sweetest, most genuine people that i have ever known, and the world will defiantly not be the same with out her. My thoughts and prayers are with Her family in this most diffucult time, i know the effect she had on me so i cannot even begin to imagine the pain they must be suffering. Sarah you will be forever loved!! R.I.P.

Caitlin Ortiz on November 8, 2011 at 5:15 pm said: 
Lori is my longest loved friend, and by default I saw her older sister as my own, too. She was such a light, and when I think of her, I picture her laughing with Lori- usually them joking with/on their parents. Such a fun family. I was blessed to have known her. I am also so happy she got to meet my daughter! Sophia just loved Sarah! My little girl even sat, randomly, for the first time right on the Lindsey's living room floor. What fun that was, laughing with them as she bobbled back and forth trying to maintain balance. Sarah, like always, was so encouraging. She seemed to always have an ability to be happy for others in all that they were accomplishing- even in a time where she was experiencing so much pain and hard times. She still smiled, and joked, and encouraged. I think that's the mark of someone truly remarkable! To be so happy for others' happiness while experience such turmoil in your own life. How extraordinary! I know that she is smiling down on her family. I love you, Lindsey family! I pray you know how absolutely blessed we all are that you shared Sarah with us. She's one of God's most beautiful Angels, now. How grateful I am to have known her.

Cassie Norman on November 8, 2011 at 5:13 pm said: 
My deepest and most heartfelt thoughts and prayers. May God bring you peace in this time of sorrow.

Sara Gupta on November 8, 2011 at 5:05 pm said: 
Sarah Bhabhi is most beautifull person i've ever met; no words can express what an amazing person she was. I was dying to meet her again and she'd promised me that she'll come visit us in India very soon. We all deep down believed that a miracle will cure her disease and still can't accept the fact that she's no more. Sending lots of love for the entire family and hope you all are doing well; i know that everyone there is really really strong . Big Big Hug for Sumit Bhaiya, Amit Bhaiya, Shweta Bhabhi,Fufaji, Buaji and sarah bhabhi's family. Rest In Peace Bhabhi, you'll always stay alive in our heart.

Debbie Hockaday on November 8, 2011 at 4:50 pm said: 
Please know that we hold your family in our thoughts. May you find strength in the knowledge that Sarah's giving spirit touched so many lives and made them brighter. With heartfelt sympathy.

Amber Rehman on November 8, 2011 at 4:34 pm said: 
Mrs.Lindsey/Gupta was an amazing teacher, she didn't treat us as a student.. she treated us as her kids, her children. She taught us to always keep our heads up and stay positive. Her smile made everyones day, her laugh left a good ending. Everyone loved Mrs. G (what she told us to call her), She made learning the most complicated things so simple and easy. She didn't put down anyone, or give up, she tried harder!! She would laugh at herself so no one else felt bad. Her outfits were extraordinary. They represented her beautiful spirit everyday, with bright colors and fantastic jewelry… she took our breathe away :')
I would walk into school, excited for 1st Period, to be welcomed by her “Good Morning,” and sweet laughter. She made everything sound like the best of both worlds. from her great indian fiance, to the christmas tree she wanted. OH Mrs. G, she always made the little things seem extravagent!! She told us the stories of her life, chuckling to herself over the little details. She truly was an amazing teacher I will always remember her  -8th Grader

Kinsey Ness on November 8, 2011 at 4:29 pm said: 
Mrs. Lindsey/Gupta was an amazing teacher, and person. She was very thoughtful and nice to everyone. She tried her hardest to be there for all of her students. She tried to make her class as fun as she could. She helped us succeed in many ways. she taught us to be better students and teachers. She dressed in the most amazing clothes. She had an amazing and cheerful personality. I don't have any bad memories from her class. Everyday I started school and walked into homeroom to see her bright smiling face. She was the kind of person who found something positive in everything. She really cared about her students and was willing to go an extra mile for them to succeed. I love how she used to toss her stuffed animal around the class when we wanted to answer questions. She was one of the nicest teachers I've ever had. Mrs. Lindsey will forever be in all of our hearts. We will miss her and her very extraordinary wardrobe.

Jennifer Johnson on November 8, 2011 at 4:26 pm said: 
Sarah will be greatly missed by all. She touched and brightened the lives of so many students and teachers here at our school. PSALMS 27: 4-5 “One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to see him in his temple. For in the day of touble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock.”
MATTHEW 5:4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
God has a wonderful new angel in Sarah.

Kiran R Sidher on November 8, 2011 at 4:25 pm said: 
Eventhough I've never met her. But I knew little bit about her from Neetu. Sumit and sarah has proved to the world the meaning of true love. May GOD bless her soul.

The Kiaras (Kinoti, Makena, Ruva, Nelson, Inosi, Humphrey, Loice and Duncan) on November 8, 2011 at 4:18 pm said: 
We had the pleasure of first meeting Sarah and Sumit a couple of years ago and distinctly remember how bubbly and pleasant Sarah was. She particularly left quite an impression on our daughters Makena and Ruva and we weren't surprised to then discover that she was a teacher who loved working with children; it clearly showed! She is gone too soon. To the Guptas and the Lindseys, our heartfelt condolences on your loss and you are in our thoughts and prayers. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

Tara and Doug Burlage on November 8, 2011 at 3:56 pm said: 
We only had the pleasure of meeting Sarah last year at St. Peter's Oyster Roast but that day will stick in our minds forever. Watching Sumit and Sarah dancing to the band and the genuine joy and love they showed toward one another was just truly amazing. We are so very sorry for your loss and know that you are in our family's prayers.

Debbie Ortiz on November 8, 2011 at 3:44 pm said: 
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Steve and Kerry Lim on November 8, 2011 at 2:50 pm said: 
Sumit and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our deepest condolences. We know she will be watching over you all with love.

I only met Sarah for two days, but in those two days, she touched my life. She was a light, full of joy and warmth, truly one of God's angel's. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and will keep your families in my thoughts and prayers.

Krista Jones Eutsey on November 8, 2011 at 2:17 pm said: 
As I sit here today I am thankful to have known Sarah and your family. Bill, Kathy, Lori and Sumit – I love you with all my heart and I'm sending my strength to you this day and in the days ahead. This morning as I showered I thought about all the things we did when we were younger…and dumber. I wanted to share a few with you – they have helped me so much to remember my Best Friend In the Whole Wide World (or BFITWWW as we used to refer to it). 

Of course there is the lasagna incident…even as we scooped hot handfuls of lasagna off the speakers of the Corvette we both roared with laughter and screamed about how Bill would kill us before we got the chance to graduate from high school. Then there are the many music videos we made – to En Vogue, Mariah Carey, the Bangles. Or remember that time I went to St. Peter's for Sarah's confirmation ceremony and when the pastor said to pray for her all I could figure out to say was, “Go Sarah, GOOOO!?” Then there was the time we went on a Forensics trip and stayed in a hotel – it was sooooo cold that night and Sarah woke up in the middle of the night and demanded, “Kritter, SCOOCH UP TO ME – I'm freezing!” and then fell right back to sleep. We even made up a fake girl and convinced one of our classmates that he was dating her in the 6th grade – we were even elaborate enough to laminate a photo of her and talk to him on the phone in different accents. We sang all day, everyday and we thought we were so good…but Sarah, she really was good. Sarah even taught me how take a shot of tequila properly (in college of course) – “No Krista, you HAVE to do the salt – even if you hate it!” We loved playing with Honey “the trailer dog” as we used to call her just to get Sarah all worked up.

Everyone is remembering Sarah as a wonderful woman today, with a fantastic singing voice and amazing, unfailing faith in her God. I will remember her as those things but I will also remember her as one of the best friends a girl could ask for. Thank you Bill, Kathy, Lori and Sumit for sharing her with me.

Lyuba Niemann on November 8, 2011 at 2:07 pm said: 
Dear Prem, Amit, and the entire family – My deep condolences to you. I know she goes on. God is love, and He continues to love her. God also continues to love and take care of everyone she left behind. Praying for all of you. May she rest in peace, and may God give you strength and comfort.

Kathleen Medlin on November 8, 2011 at 1:16 pm said: 
Sarah left a lasting impression on my son Matthew. She was one of his favorite teachers and he loved her so. She had each of her students write to my husband when he was stationed in Iraq, the letters were very special to him and he replied to every one. Rest in peace we love you.

Catherine Pierce on November 8, 2011 at 1:10 pm said: 
We were so very blessed to have Sarah in our life. Her strength and love of the Lord was so powerful. As the saying goes you may not remember what she said, or what she did, but you will always remember how she made you feel. Our daughter, Ashley was touched by Sarah as a teacher and then as a mentor in a way that we can never even begin to express and I thank God for the magnitude of Sarah's life. We love you Kathy, Bill, Sumit, Lori, and David as well as all the Gupta's. Sarah will forever be in our hearts!

Bharati Uppin on November 8, 2011 at 12:30 pm said: 
You are in my prayers. Please accept my condolences. You and your family are in our thoughts. My deepest sympathy to you at this time of sorrow. She is in God's care now and what better care could we ever ask for her? Now I pray for your comfort in the days ahead. God bless you and keep you in His tender care and love for all eternity.

I am.Melvin.. I was in Mrs Gupta's 6th grade class..i had been worried sick about you since the day I heard the news.you were an amazing teacher to me and helped me out so much.i looked forward to coming to school to see you everyday:)the day you told us you weren't coming back I cried when I went home and I never knew how big of an impact you made on my life..you have all my prayers..i love you soo much..just thinking about it right now just makes me want to cry.buti know your in a better place..God is an awesome God and I will miss you alot)if I could took the pain for you I would..just keep on smiling that gorgeous smile I will never forget and keep your head up....i love you so much and I would love if I could see you again one day...i still go to New Kent and I am in 11th grade now..:)oh what a beautiful sweethearted boy you inspired me to be..i loe you I love I loveyou..never forget:)peace, love, good health and andhappiness?.

Dear sweet Sarah, we will so miss your smile and beautiful voice and heart.

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Sarah, who is now resting in the arms of her Lord.  God bless and keep you.

Glenda Howard (Petersburg, VA)

May all in Sarah's family be surrounded by an awareness of Divine Comfort and Peace,and also of the love & prayers of many friends!
Hal Wallof, Providence Forge

RIP our sweet Angel.  Heaven gained and Angel.

My Dear Sarah,
I will miss your smile and your laugh.  your amazing self.  I know that you are in a better place now. I will always rememebr our good times in the OBX.  Our long talks. I love you.  You have inspired me in so many ways.  you have touched so many lives.  I love you.  Till we meet again.  RIP

There are some who bring a light SO great to the world that even after they have gone, the light remains.  Sarah is one of those special lights that God used and will continue to use to HIS glory.

What a wonderful and beautiful young lady and sounds like she touched everyone she met in a special way. God will be with you and your family and Sumit.  God Bless

Although I never had the chance to really interact with  Sarah while at William and Mary, in true Tribe spirit she has impacted the lives of those with whom she worked and those who barely knew her. What strength of purpose lies in such hearts as these!

 There was not one student who's heart she didn't touch. She was a loving teacher who will be greatly missed. She was an inspiration to all. She could light up an entire room.
-Franklin Academy Student

A girl that was very loved of and full of love for life and people. This is how I remembered her and clearly she still was...and is... May God show his grace and mercy on your family in these days ahead. She is safe in her Father's Arms!

Bill, Kathy, Lori. Sumit and Families,

Thank you for sharing Sarah's life with us..We never met but I feel such a connection with sweet Sarah...She has inspired millions with her Faith...She was welcomed to heaven with open arms by our Abba Father..."Welcome Home My good and faithful servant" Keeping The Faith On Eagle Wings...><...

I am so sorry for her family my prayers go out to yall she was a great teacher my 6th grade teacher you will be greatly missed Mrs Lindsey

I was so sorry to hear of Sarah's passing. I remember her so well in school with my children. She and Kimberly played in "Bye, Bye, Birdy" where Sarah did all of the choreography. Melanie enjoyed the summer theater group that she hosted and really enjoyed it. I am so heartbroken, for you, her family, as well as all of her friends. We saw so much hope and potential in Sarah! May God keep you all in his grace and give you strength in the comming days and years. 

Linda Martin

OBITUARY

Sarah Elizabeth Lindsey Gupta

27 October, 1980 – 6 November, 2011

Mitchell Funeral Home at Raleigh Memorial Park

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