Our deepest sympathy to you Lauren, Jason, and the entire family! 

Sending all our love,
Butch and Bette

Mrs. McCumber was my first grade teacher and truly an amazing woman.  She kept in touch with me every year since I left her class in 2001.  I looked forward to hearing from her every summer and our annual Ralph’s Italian Ice dates.  She truly cared for each and every student she had in her class and took the time to personally get to know everyone.  She was the sweetest, most kind hearted woman and will be missed dearly!

Mrs. McCumber was my first grade teacher and was my favorite teacher I had in my many years of school. She was so compassionate and caring for her students and always encouraged our learning. I was lucky enough to let her know the huge impact she had on my life and observe her teaching while I was in my undergraduate program for education. I am sad to hear of her passing, but hope that she may rest in peace.

Dear Lee,

So sorry for the loss of Patty.  Living down the street on Pembrook drive growing up I remember your big sister Patty as a beautiful and sweet person.  You, your sisters and your brother is what I remember. Just a lovely family.  You can see from the photos how you all grew in love and strength as a family throughout the years.  My heartfelt condolences, prayers  and love to you and your whole family.  May her memory be a blessing to you all.

Toni Quirk Holland

My beautiful mom, 
you will be forever missed by all that have ever met you. You have been the center of our world and we will cherish every single moment we got to spend with you. Thank you for being not only an amazing mom but the best grandma there could ever be. We know you will walk beside us all, hopefully hand in hand with Dad. You are forever loved❤️. 

Dear Lauren, Meredithe, Chris, Dana, and Randy — our hearts break for you. Your Mom was the kindest, most loving, most genuine person; she was loved and will be missed by so many. She was also the best grandmother, giving her grandchildren the most wonderful memories. She made ordinary days special for them, and special days so memorable for all of you.  Our prayers are with all of you during this very sad time. — With our love and deepest sympathies, Aunt Diane and Uncle Vinnie

Pat, I will miss you until the day I die.  I was blessed having you choose me to be your friend, and I have always treasured our friendship.  We always said we were more than friends; we were family. Pat, when my grief feels unbearable, I imagine you dancing through Heaven with Mel and that makes me smile. Rest In Peace, my dear, dear friend. 
— Diane

Pat was such a lovely woman.  I have known her for many years through Setauket Presbyterian Church and she was such an integral part of her church family.  We will sorely miss her, but I know not as much as her family.

We were truly blessed to have Pat teach my children when they were in the 1st grade.  She was the perfect example of kindness and love and touched so many lives.  May the beautiful memories we all have of Pat comfort her loved ones during this difficult time. 

I will always remember Pat as the perfect example of a teacher. All the years I worked with her I never saw her with anything but a smile. Beyond kind.   So sorry, too soon. 

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Melvin McCumber

Lauren Roberts (Jason)

Meredithe McCumber

Christopher McCumber (Joanna)

Dianna Webber

Randall McCumber (Debbie)

Blake Webber

Derek Webber

Chase Pulido

Emelie Pulido

Devin Roberts

Melanie Roberts

Payton McCumber

Christopher McCumber Jr.

Justin McCumber

Gina Oliveri

Jack McCumber

Brady McCumber

Meredithe Shields

Lee Munch

Bruce Rummel

Cheryle Heller

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Patricia R. McCumber

28 May, 1951 – 20 July, 2022

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