Today, we gather not just to remember, but to celebrate the life of a remarkable soul, Francisco Antonio Hernandez Carbuccia, who touched each of our lives with his vibrant spirit, boundless energy, and unwavering commitment to helping others. He was born on December 1, 1916, to the proud parents of Adriano Hernandez and Josefa Oliva Carbuccia Diaz, in the town of San Pedro de Macoris, RD., Dominican Republic.
Francisco’s roots were firmly planted in the rich soil of Dominican Republic, where he blossomed into the incredible man we all knew and loved. He became the guiding light for his younger siblings, demonstrating strength and compassion from an early age. As the eldest of 6 siblings, (Guigui (predeceased), Fco.Ant (predeceased), Antonio (predeceased), Maria Luisa (predeceased) and Juana Herminia), he embraced the responsibilities with grace as was true to his nature. His educational journey took him through high school, laying the foundation for a life that would later be defined by hard work and dedication.
Francisco met and married his love, Mercedes Gloria Pereyra de Hernández, who predeceased him on November 14, 2005. They were married on February 3, 1949 (56 years) and were each other’s dancing partner in life. He adored dancing with her, and the family loved to watch them dance as well. His role as a father was very central to his identity as they lovingly raised 10 children: M. Sonia, Josefa A., Antonio U., Jose M., Francisco H., Mercedes H. Adriana M., Alba A., Mariana and Luisa.
During the Dominican Civil War in 1965, Francisco opened his heart and home to aid the wounded military soldiers of the war. He was awarded several outstanding achievements / certificates during the war and around 1966 his rankings rose within the scouts. As an active member his rankings were as such: Comisionado de Distrito, Comité Nacional de Scouts. Miembro del Club de Leones del Ensanche Ozama, Sto.Dgo., RD. Y Miembro Honorifico del Club Rotario, Ens. Ozama, Sto.Dgo., RD. He liked being a part of all different kinds of associations.
In 1980, a new chapter began as Francisco migrated to the United States so his family would have better opportunities. He was a fantastic provider for his family as he was a jack-of-all trades: an electrician and an agricultural worker. This was a testament to his commitment to family, where he not only tended to his children but was also supportive to others. His last job prior to retiring after 12 years, was as a wardrobe administrator at the Inhilco Company which was located at the world trade center.
Francisco’s life was a tapestry woven with love, laughter, and shared moments. He was passionate about imparting his knowledge to his grandkids and his love for reading was a source of inspiration for all who knew him. He would often teach others different things including how to read. He enjoyed being outside with nature and the animals due to his experience as a cattle rancher. His hands were skilled in building and fixing things and he showed us by expertly completing crossword puzzles, playing checkers, and doing arts and crafts. He often joked that red wine was the key to a good heart and enjoyed drinking it with others. He had a surprisingly strong obsession with sugary and sweet foods, as he can’t say no to honey and candies much to the chagrin of his family. In his later years, he became a motorcycle enthusiast as he became fascinated with it. He would always say that motorcycle riding is a combination of exhilaration, fear, relaxation, and pleasure that changes you forever. This made his family terrified, as long as he wasn’t the one riding the motorcycle. In August 1991, he moved to Christmas, Florida, where he was cared for by many, and spent his last 5 years living with his son, Jose M. until his death.
On November 8, 2023, we bid farewell to a beloved patriarch as God called him home. Francisco leaves behind a legacy that transcends generations — a legacy of 10 children, 20 nietos/grandchildren, 41 biznieto/great-grandchildren, 4 tataranietos/great-great-grandchildren, and a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins. He couldn’t imagine knowing the third generation – they simply thrilled him and lit up his life. His grandchildren were the pride of his existence, and he enjoyed spending time with them as he didn’t have to raise and discipline most of them. He taught them nature survival skills and they did numerous road trips. Those grandchildren have many stories to tell to the other generation about Francisco.
The void left by his departure is immeasurable, yet we find solace in the countless memories he gifted us.
As we mourn the physical absence of Francisco, let us also celebrate the angel that Heaven has gained. His spirit will forever dance in the hearts of those who had the privilege of sharing life's journey with him. In this moment of sorrow, let us find strength in the beauty of the memories he crafted, and may we carry forward the lessons of love, resilience, and family that he so beautifully embodied.
May he rest in eternal peace, and may his light continue to shine in the lives he touched.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.baldwinfairchildchapelhill.com for the Hernandez Carbuccia family.
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