Alec was born on a beautiful spring day with the promise of not only a season of rebirth and change, but also a lifetime of it. Alec was a wonderful son, brother, cousin, nephew, grandson, stepson and friend. He made friends almost effortlessly and touched so many lives with his positive attitude and great sense of humor. His smile, his laughter, his heart were the most healing things in the world. His love of life was evident and his happiness was almost contagious. His smile could light up a room.
As our firstborn child, we questioned everything we did, but Alec was our teacher. He taught us what it meant to be good parents, how to be patient, how to laugh, and most importantly, how to love unconditionally. As a big brother, he was the best we could have asked for, loving and teaching his baby brother, Jake, as only he could. Their brotherly bond was truly amazing and I am so very grateful that they had each other to lean on throughout their lives.
From an early age, Alec loved music. Having been born in the 90’s, he was introduced to grunge music as well as classic rock, but really enjoyed all forms of music in general. In high school, he played the saxophone in the school band and formed relationships that lasted for the rest of his life. He later found his true passion in the drums, but also learned to play the guitar. Along with his brother, Jake, and some musically talented friends, his musicianship grew and his love of music developed into more than just a hobby. He then became interested in creating music electronically and enjoyed the freedom and creativity this media provided. Prior to his passing, he was really starting to focus on his music and was in the middle of making an EP that he was very excited about. Whenever he talked about his music, his eyes would light up with sheer delight.
Alec lived his life in a carefree manner, finding joy in the little things. He was a minimalist, not wanting of many material things, but treasured his family and friends more than anyone I know. He loved the beach, the mountains, hiking, skateboarding, and spending time with those he loved. His true gift in life was that he simply accepted everyone for who they were. In that sense, we should all strive to be a little more like Alec.
Left to cherish his memory are his parents, Patty Murillo and Scott Taylor, his brother Jake, his grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, and the countless friends and lives Alec has touched throughout his life. His smile, kindness, compassion, laughter, and genuine love of life will be missed more than words can say.
“You never said I’m leaving, you never said goodbye. You were gone before we knew it, and only God knew why. A million times we needed you, a million times we cried. If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died. In life we loved you dearly, in death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place that no one could ever fill. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn’t go alone. For part of us went with you, the day God took you home.”
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