Stephen William Abernathy, Sr., also known as Steve, the Fishgod, Big S, and Big Daddy, ended his lifelong ride on June 21st, 2024 in New Orleans, LA. Steve was born to Fred and Thelma Abernathy in New Orleans on October 22nd, 1951. He is survived by his loving wife, Kathleen Cullen Abernathy, as well as his three children: Stephen Jr. (Jen), Aimee, and Robert (Lenna). He had a grandson, Apollo. Also honoring Steve's memory is his sister Jacqueline A. Rausch (Joe), and numerous nieces and nephews.
Steve was a walking example of a gregarious extrovert. There were no strangers in his life, only friends he had not yet met. He had an immense number of stories and wouldn't hesitate to tell them to anyone who would listen. He was funny, charming, and had an innate ability to endear others to him instantly. He could talk to anyone, often for far too long. He was extremely talented with his mind and hands, and he could conceptualize and build anything. He loved his family, motorcycling in the American West, good food, and great Scotch.
Steve was quite the entrepreneur and innovator. He excelled in carpentry, millwork, aquaculture engineering, and general construction. As the Fishgod, he showed his ingenious brain. He worked with top experts and PhDs of various fields around the globe, as a respected colleague and peer, especially in the field of aquaculture.
As Big Daddy, he showed his generous heart. Steve was known for helping others in need, and asked for nothing in return, as he was content in serving others. He was a father figure to many. Big Daddy was always ready to offer guidance, whether as a story that imbued entertainment with life lessons, directions to the scenic highways with the most breathtaking landscapes, or simple sage wisdom, like the Forbes adage: "It's a very short trip; while alive, live."
Each member of Steve's family considers their relationship with him very special in their own unique ways. Steve adored his wife Kathleen and scarcely went a day without complimenting her over their fifty years of marriage. Steve spoke of his two sons, Stephen Jr. and Robert, with glimmering pride. His daughter Aimee will always be his little girl at every age. His grandson Apollo was truly the light of his life during Big Daddy's twilight years.
All who were fortunate enough to know him, regardless of how, know his distinctive voice - deep, rich, and uninhibited (especially while performing his favorite Frank Sinatra music). His voice was the perfect complement to his welcoming and magnetic personality.
Steve will be missed by many who were gifted with his presence. His final gift was an organ and tissue donation, facilitated by the Louisiana Organ Procurement Agency.
Steve has long requested that his memory be honored with joy rather than sorrow. The Abernathy family will announce details of the celebration of his life in the coming months. Please do not send flowers as services have not been finalized.
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