Earl & I wish to express our sincerest condolences to the entire Tobin Family. Brenda had such a beautiful and gentle soul. She touched everyone and anyone who was Blessed enough to know her. The old saying  “to know her is to love her” unequivocally described Brenda!  I like to think that her light is still shining brightly amongst the angels in Heaven.  I remember when Nancy was pregnant with Brenda. As Lori’s childhood friend, I shared in the excitement and joy of the birth of that precious little baby! Most of my memories are of Brenda as a little girl living in Rapid  City.  After the tragic loss of Nancy, Charlotte  was the answer to many, many prayers. Brenda had not just one, but two,  really great Mothers that loved her dearly and unconditionally.  I will always cherish being able to see Brenda when she got older and was living in Las Vegas. Of course she remembered my name!! God Bless her sweet soul and God be with the Tobin family now, giving them comfort and peace. 

A light went out on Earth for Brenda Sue
The day we said goodbye
And on that day a star was born,
The brightest in the sky
Reaching through the darkness
With its rays of purest white
Lighting up the Heavens
As it once lit up her life
With beams of love to heal
The broken hearts you left behind
Where always in our memory
Your lovely star will shine!

~Love Always, Jennifer, Robert, and Alyssa Wilson


We met as small children when you came to visit in Colorado.  We  would take turns reading a book out loud to each other.  It is a sweet memory for me because we really enjoyed our time together. 

I'm sure Brenda will be missed. Virginia and Brenda were close in age and shared a lot of good times together. We are thankful for her short time on earth.

I remember when Charlotte taught her to fry an egg 🥚 she was so proud. I remember when she called me her twin because we were both named Brenda. I remember her sweetness and innocence. I love ❤️ her and I will always treasure her memory.

Brenda was my buddy! I looked forward to seeing her when she came to visit verne at sunrise. She will be missed!

Sorry to Brenda's family, I remember well Danny bringing over to his house to see his baby sister he was so proud

Such a sweet soul. I remember how much she loved “Happy Days” and the Fonz and her duck named Buck. Rest in peace, Brenda. You will always be an inspiration to all those who met you. 

Brenda Sue was one of the sweetest souls that God ever created!!!❤️

Brenda,

I will miss you terribly. Thank you for always giving me the biggest hugs and smiles anytime you saw me. You were always so nice to me especially when I first joined the family. You are the brightest star in the sky now.  Love Jennifer 

This was my sweetheart ♥️ and always will be. 

You are mine!

My fondest memories with Brenda Sue was
going to McDonald's for the first time.
I didn't live in a big town so this was a treat
for me! Marion had gotten her license to drive and we all put our coats on, and off to get a cheeseburger. It became a habit to go visit, on Saturday we always went to McDonald's. 
After we got back to the house it was off to her room to play records and dance.....lots of fun and giggles!  

OBITUARY

Brenda Sue Tobin

3 July, 1969 – 19 January, 2023

Palm Downtown Mortuary & Cemetery

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