I don’t even know where to begin, but Brenda deserves to have her memory honored by me  as she was a great influence to me throughout my life.  The first told memory of my Aunt Brenda was told by her, she was 11 when I was born.  I was born on May 3 and her birthday was on May 6. The story is that my Aunt Brenda came to visit me with my Grandpa and Grandma and when the adults weren’t watching, she picked me up out of my bassinet to hold me. My Aunt Brenda, including my Aunt Char, &  dearly departed Aunt Colleen were like celebrities to me and always made me feel loved and special.  I thought they were so cool. I have so many memories that I could share but most of all, I was loved by her and knew it and have memories to prove it.   My Aunt Brenda & I had a special connection that  I will hold dear for  the rest of my life. She loved & cared so deeply. The love between my Aunt Brenda and Uncle Ron stood the test of time and I like to believe their love was a true love story. I was their flower girl at age 9. I remember being so excited did their big day! It could have been a royal wedding in my eyes, at the time.
Brenda was always so proud of her husband, sons, daughters-in-law, and her 3 beautiful granddaughters. No one could ever compare to any of them in her eyes. They were the best in the world if you asked her! She was so proud of all of them and loved them all so much! They were her world!  
I could continue on and on, but mainly, I want to say that I will miss you tremendously, Aunt Brenda. Thank you for your love and support and all of the special moments we shared with our families together. My family loves you, Uncle Ron, Ron, Savannah, McKenna, Matt, Beth, Abby, & Cassie, and we appreciate all of you. You always made us feel loved and welcomed. I will never forget all of the good memories & I’ll always hold you  near & dear to my heart. I can’t believe you’re gone & so terribly sorry that you  got so sick. I will miss you so much! Love you! 🙏🏻✝️💓 



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Brenda Green Detzler

6 May, 1960 – 22 November, 2021

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