If love could have saved you, you would still be here.

I know you are in heaven surrounded by so many animals

You are missed beyond words and loved to the moon and back.

Lindsey there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you and wish you were still here with us. It is so hard to believe you are gone two years already.  You were the brightest light in our world and that light is a little dimmer without you here.  Love and miss you forever.

Lindsey was on my mind so I decided to google her name and I saw this obituarty.
I was Lindsey's special education teacher when she was in middle school. I have such fond memories of Lindsey.  She was an amazing girl, with so much spirit and passion for life. Every teacher who worked with her loved her.  Even when I would go teach her when she was in the hospital or homebound, she always worked so hard and gave so much.
Even though I have haven't seen her in over 17 years I have always carried a piece of her in my heart.
My condolences go out to her Mom Annette, and the rest of the family and I'm so so sorry for your loss.
With so much love,
Kym Perkins
Lindsey's teacher from Durham

We miss your laughter, your smile, your hugs and most of all we just miss you. It is a pain in our hearts that will never go away. 

I miss you so very much Lindsey. The day you passed was the day the lights in Georgia went out. Your family misses your humor and your spirit and most  of all we miss you.

Love, Mom, Dad and Ashley

Lindsey with radio DJ Warren "Rhubarb" Jones during the Crohn's Pacesetter walk

Lindsey with a service dog at the hospital

Lindsey and Ashley with their cousin, Leanne

Lindsey at Scottish Rite with the therapy dogs

Lindsey with her cousin, Allison at Lake Oconee

We loved you your whole life and will miss you for the rest of ours

She had a sense for when someone needed cheering up, even when she wasn't around. She would text me now and then and it was always right when I needed it.  We met in accounting 101, and we talked about our families, life goals, everything. When covid hit that semester, she made a point to work together for the rest of our class work. You were the best kind of person, Lindsey. I'm forever glad I got the chance to meet you. 

I was sitting up late last night, the time Lindsey and I would message each other. One message hit me really hard. During the pandemic last year, Lindsey knew I’d be awake, we were both night owls. She was so sad, that due to the pandemic she couldn’t have many visitors, and they couldn’t stay long. I asked her if she wanted me to call her during visiting times, when no one would be there. She was so excited and happy that someone would do that for her. 
Till this day, I don’t understand why she was so surprised. She gave so much and asked for nothing in return. So many times I wanted to tell her I loved her, but I was afraid she’d feel creepy. Well Lindsey, I know you can read everything people are writing about you. I love you, baby girl, and I always will. There will never, ever be another you. If I had been gifted a child, I would love a daughter just like you. Till we see each other, and I can give you hug, just know a piece of my heart is missing, and that’s you. 😞❤️

I met the D’ercole family when my parents lived in Georgia and were lucky enough to be next door neighbors with them! My family visited my parents, and of course they wanted us to meet their good friends. That’s when I met Lindsey, and although it was a short introduction, I was lucky enough to have always kept in contact with them through the years. I always loved to hear  how much my parents loved Lindsey and Ashley. My dad tutored Lindsey when she was in elementary school, and always talked about how strong  she was for all she had to go through, and how much he adored and admired her.  They were like grandparents to the girls, and through them, I got to love them too. Then, through Facebook, I got to start a relationship with Lindsey on my own, and I know it has been mentioned many times, but I was always in awe of her positivity in life, despite all her trials and tribulations. She was, and is, an inspiration to so many, and she will be missed more than words can say. I know my parents have welcomed her ‘home’.  

Lindsey was such a beautiful, compassionate, loving person. To know her is to love her. We shared being Crohn’s warriors and she became part of our family. Her love for animals shined through when she took care of mine knowing they were being spoiled and loved on. I grew to love her and Annette- how could I not with the beautiful human beings they are. Lindsey’s strength, persistence to live life to the fullest, and positivity I was in awe of. She became like one of my children I cared for deeply. I wanted the best for her, supported her through the highs and lows, made a point to let her know how amazing she was, how much she meant to us, how loved she was because it was important to me to let her know “ I see you”. Lindsey deserved every ounce of love she could get because her whole life she gave, showed such great love to others with such compassion wether human or fur kid. I will miss her smile, laughter, talks. I’d give anything for 1 more hug. There’s a whole in my heart without you here beside the imprint you’ve forever left on my heart. Your Kye Blue is going to miss you so very much.The beautiful light that shined through you will continue to shine on in my heart and the many hearts you’ve touched. Rest In Peace my sweet warrior and bask in your glory you’ve more than earned. Until we meet again I promise to keep your light shining here.

My oldest son was good friends with Lindsey and our families worked together in pet rescue. I have suffered with digestive issues since birth but mine were nothing like Lindsey’s. After some years of seeing Lindsey go through her struggles I realized I was feeling way too sorry for myself. There came a point that I dug myself out of severe depression and started a new life. In recent years I continued to follow Lindsey’s struggles via Facebook.  Lindsey touched so many people even from a distance. I am grateful  to her and her family for wonderful memories and friendships I however am even more grateful to Lindsey for her amazing spirit and setting such an incredible example for the rest of us. Rest In Peace Lindsey. 

Lindsey, You are & forever will be my best friend. Words can't express how heart broken I am. The only comfort I seem to find is knowing you are no longer in pain. I will miss our talks and all our funny pictures or videos we took today. Thank you for bringing so much joy into my life & the world. I know we will see eachother again one day but I just wish we had more time together. You touched so many people's hearts & I hope now you can truely see just how loved you were. I will keep fighting everyday in your honor & your memory will live on. I will share stories to Zay about how much you loved him. Thank you for being my best friend. I will forever & always miss you. You were a true warrior you were a Angel to us long before now only now you can wear your purple angel wings proudly you earned them. 💜  I'm sure they are beautiful on you. Rest easy my friend. I love you forever. Hugs. 

Today, I am saying goodbye to my dear, sweet friend Lindsey.
I was working at PetSmart when I met Lindsey.  She was three years old and Annette would bring her along to take care of the kitties that were waiting for their "furever" homes at the PetSmart Adoption Center.  Lindsey would come find me and hang from my belt loops (or sit on my foot) while I was working.  She talked a mile a minute and always brightened my day.   We became good friends while she grew up doing rescue.
I'm not sure that I would be alive today if not for Lindsey.  When I was 29 years old, I was diagnosed with a rare, benign liver tumor, which was fast growing and life threatening.  During my deliberations on whether to have the surgery to remove the tumor, Lindsey was 13 years old.  She had been through more surgeries than birthdays at this point in her life and unfortunately, she was a pro.  She made sure that I knew to ask for the "Skittles" medicine to make the fear go away.  At this young age, she was wise beyond her years and she gave me the courage to face my fears head-on and have the surgery.  I'm here today because of her pep talk.
Lindsey was brave, strong and resilient.  Through all of her battles, challenges, pain and illness, she never gave up.  She wasn't always happy about it and would let everyone know it, but she always dealt head on with whatever came her way.
As hard as it may be to say goodbye to my friend, I find peace knowing that I will see her again.  She is no longer enduring painful medical procedures, illness, sadness, loneliness or fear.  She will have no more holidays in the hospital and no more suffering.  She has laid down her sword.
I am blessed to have had the time with Lindsey and the memories will always bring me joy.  Her time on earth was short, but I will cherish the impact she had on my life.
I will miss you, Lindsey.
Your spirit is free.  Fly high, my dear friend, until we meet again.


Lindsey has been one of my best friends since Highschool she was always there for me. Stood next to me when my dad died and I had to tell my mother and then again a year later when my mom passed not matter what happened even if we where mad at each other we were there when one called eachother she was my person. 

We met in college a while ago. We were in between classes and she was at a picnic table with her school stuff. I went to ask if I could  sit down and share the table and of course she said "yes". We ended up talking instead of school work . From then on we became friends and keeping in touch over 8 years. It was always great to keep up with each other as well as meet up and hang from time to time. 
You shall be missed but not forgotten.
              Use those wings to guide and watch over us .

23 years of friendship wasn’t long enough. But I’m so thankful for the time we did have and the friendship we shared. 

Although you left us to soon we will have you in our hearts forever.💜

Ive known Lindsey since we were 14. we both attend a camp called youth rally. we were stuck together like glue from day one. we both shared having an ostomy and chronic illness. My favorite memories I have are staying up late and talking about anything and everything. She inspired me to be more comfortable having an ostomy and not to be afraid to show it off. I will forever be grateful for our friendship.

I met Lindsey online in an IBD ( Crohn's Disease and Ulcerative Colitis) support group .  We never got to meet in person as I live in South Africa however I'm really blessed and honoured that our paths crossed  ✨  my heart goes out to Annette and her family.  💜 

You were the shinning  star in a corner of darkness and the voice for many.  I have seen you fight all your life through your  illness with such courage and strength. I have never know anyone as brave as you. You had a kind soul, such caring and kindness , and a huge heart.
You touched the lives of so many, and broke many hearts by your leaving us. May God and the angels take you under their wings and  protect you . Until we all meet again someday.
We will love you and miss you so much! 🙏🏻❤️
Love You Always, Pray for you still! Aunt Angela

I will always remember the young girl who’s mother and her daughter Lindsey brought us a welcome cake in 2004. My family knew this was going to be a great fit in the neighborhood. We all got to know her over the years and loved her. I hope she is now at peace and pain free! Lindsey will be missed terribly.

Lindsey you are my best friend and you are my girlfriend and the love of my life and you Meant the world to me . Words can never describes how much I cared about you and love you Lindsey and you changed my world for the better. And you made me a better person  in life and I will honor your memory every single day.

Lindsey is and was special. Met her through our cats and dogs that were rescued. She came to walk our beloved two dogs, Riley and Bailey who would jump for joy and wag their tails over and over when they were with Lindsey.
She fought an  unbelievable battle that most would be crushed yet Lindsey never let anything get her down or upset. Always with a positive, can do attitude and a tremendous person of character and substance who was always there for anyone. Bless you Lindsey as you watch over your family and others in heaven. You will be sorely missed but never forgotten as your spirit will live on forever. 

I meet Lindsay in college Chattahoochee tech. Lindsey came to me and ask me if I want to be her best friend. And I said yes I will love to be your best friend. Every time I saw Lindsey I come run to her and give her a big hugs. You always put a smile on your face every day. I was so lucky to have her as my best friend in my life. Lindsey was like my big sister in my life. I love you so much Lindsey will all my heart.👼🏼❤️

Lindsey met my son and I after he was diagnosed with Crohn's disease. Lindsey was already friends with my daughter and her friend Tanisha. After meeting Lindsey and her mom, we were thankful as the news of his disease was crushing to our family. Lindsey and her mom were so very helpful and informative. Because of Lindsey, we were made aware of certain cautions with medication changes/doctors. My son is doing well and thriving and I have Lindsey and her mom to thank. 
On rare occasions, Lindsey would ask me accounting questions. I enjoyed helping her where I could but, sometimes I could not help her because teaching methods or information was vastly different. She was a very smart beautiful young lady with heart of gold who touched my family. I only wish I had known her sooner. 

I don’t know how my story will end, but nowhere in my text will it ever read “I gave up.” 

OBITUARY

Lindsey Alyssa D'Ercole

18 October, 1993 – 8 December, 2021

Winkenhofer Pine Ridge Funeral Home and Memorial Park

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