Steve and Cheryl, such heartbreak for your family. Just saw mention of Jack’s tragic death in Criterion. No words of comfort. So sorry.
Juanita Duncan

To the Shockley family,

My heart goes out to all of you--John's family and friends-- for the loss you have suffered. We've never met and I have no connection to John or his family or friends. I am a complete stranger who happened across John's story and was so touched by the wonderful human being that he was I felt compelled to offer my condolences. 

I see this young man's life full of promise and the gift of the positive contribution to society he was well on his way toward providing and my heart breaks. From what I've read, John was blessed with a wonderful and loving family and parents who raised him right with love and guidance. To them, I say Thank You for providing John with as full a life as one could wish for at 24. You are his heroes.

Sincerely,

-Enrique

Steve & Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear about your son, Jack.  My sincere condolences to you and his brother and sister.  I will keep your family in my prayers. 
God’s blessings to you all.
Juanita Duncan

To the Shockleys:

I had the pleasure of being Jack's supervisor at Green BEAN Delivery for most of his time with the company. He was such a sweet, kind soul who never gave me a single issue or had a single complaint the whole time I worked with him. Things were often not ideal at work and there were times Jack had to pick up the slack of being short-staffed and he did it without missing a beat, and without a single complaint. He was responsible, intelligent, kind, and gentle. 

Words cannot express how heartbroken I was when I heard the news, anger is the first emotion I felt as I tried to grapple with how something so senseless can happen to such a good soul. My heart goes out to all of his friends and family as they try to navigate this difficult time. 

Please give Peter my condolences, I also worked with him for some time at GBD and he shared that same kind soul that Jack had. I know he must be absolutely crushed to have his brother taken from him in this way and he needs an outpouring of love and support right now as well. 

I will never forget you, Jack. 

To the Shockley family,

Although we never met we feel like we know you through Jack. He was one of my daughter’s best friends - they met at IU. 

We had the pleasure of hosting Jack at our NY home over the holidays a few years back. Our home was filled with the extraordinary love and energy of their group of friends. 

I’m so honored to have known Jack through Alex.  His entire being will leave a mark on all of us. 

We are sending love, prayers, and condolences to you all. May his memory be a blessing. 

Warmly,

Lauren, Steve, and Alex Torre along with our sons Kyle and Luke 

Steve and Cheryl,

I just learned of your loss.  I am so deeply sorry and I know there is nothing I can say but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Your faith in God will keep you strong.

Love to your family,
Kathy and Phil

Sending all of our love and prayers to all of you. We were all shattered to hear of your tragic loss.   We have been remembering such fun times when the kids would all walk to CKS from Hillside along with the ding-dong-ditch shenanigans and pop up air soft BB wars to swimming "parties." Knowing Jack from Kindergarten as he grew along with the other kids into such a thoughtful young man are memories we will all treasure even more now. 

All of us here at the Schmitt/Vielee family are holding you close in prayer.  Know we are thinking about you all and Jack as well. 

Much love,
Schuyler Schmitt, Lara Vielee, Claire and Meredith , Alex, Emma, Alison and Fletcher

I didn't know Jack, he was a co-worker and friend of my son, Marcus Mobley. My son described Jack as a" fun-loving, kind soul, who always thought of others first. He was the friend you wanted to have. " He was there for my son when he was going through a tough time in his life and for that, I will always be grateful to him. Please know that you're family will be in  our families continued prayers. May Our Lord comfort you and give you the peace to fill your hearts with the void you feel now. In Christ Name, Bonnie Mobley (Mother of Jack's friend, Marcus Mobley).

I don't think I have the language required to describe what I found so perfect about jack, so I'm just going to list some of the many memories that are ingrained in me forever.

I remember him making fun of the size of the pork tenderloin at the bandit yard. I remember him remarking at how many La Quinta hotels we'd pass to get to the bandit yard. I remember how fast he was. I remember being so grateful to have a funny friend that I could actually bring around my parents - most "funny" middle schools boys aren't actually funny, they're just inappropriate.  I remember the times he'd surprise you, like when he walked in on me listening to slow dancing in a burning room by john mayer and I was SURE he was going to roast me, but instead he told me how much he secretly loved that song (before kindly suggesting that I try listening to a real band like Wilco instead, which was his sister's favorite band. Quite good advice). I remember how optimistic he was when the pacers took a chance on paul george - and how right he was to be! I remember how generous he was with his time, I never felt rushed around Jack. 

One time Jack came to Ohio with me to visit my extended family and for some reason he never forgot a single person's name that he met on that trip. I'd see him at a party 10 years later and he'd, hilariously, ask me how "Brenden" (my great aunt's neighbor's daughter's nephew who we met for 5 minutes, I'm not kidding) was. That always cracked me up.

I'll always cherish the time I got to spend with him. To the Shockley family and all of his friends, you're in my heart now and forever. 

Rest in peace John "Jack" Sho,
John "Jack" She





Our hearts are with you all.  So many great memories of Jack and all the boys running the combined back yards. 

Eternal rest, grant unto him O Lord
and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed,
through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen. 
Love and prayers from the Coogan family

Cheryl, Steve,  Grace, and Peter,
  Your family has such a tremendous faith and love that has lifted our family in time of need.  May your feel the prayers of all of us lifting the cross with you until you are joined again in final peace!
Love,
The Perkins Family


I’ve spent the past couple days trying to reflect on what the past 24 years  of friendship with Jack has meant to me and I don’t think I’ll ever find all the words to describe it. My family and friends come first in life and Jack was both. From dawn till dusk we made Hillside Ave our home. The countless memories of causing the most trouble, celebrating our birthdays, learning how to play every sport together, and somehow convincing both our parents to consistently have sleepovers was everything I could’ve asked for. I always told myself that my childhood would officially come to an end when Tom Brady retired and I’ve never been more wrong in my life. There’s not a single person in the world that I would’ve wanted to share these memories with for the past 24 years. I will keep our passion for the Red Sox and resisting all trends alive with me. I wish I could’ve been your Superman last Wednesday...To the greatest best friend a kid could ever ask for I’ll love you forever Jack 
 Q

There are many many great memories I shared with Jack over the last 10 years, but one of my favorites was in June of 2019. My friend Carly and I were walking on one of the streets downtown Indianapolis to go to a different bar. We randomly ran into Jack on our way - he stopped mid conversation with his friends and he picked me up and spun me around. We both were so excited to see each other. He ended up coming with us and we all enjoyed the night together.  It was pure happiness whenever I would see Jack 💓

I am heartbroken to find out that this tragedy has befallen your family. I know that the pain and immediacy of Jack’s loss will never leave you- please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dearest Cheryl, Steve and family,
You have my deepest condolences on the tragic death of Jack.  You will all remain in my prayers.

Eternal rest grant into to Jack, O Lord.  And let perpetual light shine upon him.  May his soul rest in peace.

Matt and Jill Render

Steve and Cheryl

There are no words that can adequately convey our deepest sympathy and sorrow for your loss.  By all accounts Jack was a sweet and kind soul and he will be dearly missed.  We know he is in heaven with his Jesus, his Lord and Savior. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers.  Much love, Mark and Heather.


Spending so many monumental years growing up together as classmates and dear friends, a piece of my heart will always be with Jack. I think back to our 8th grade graduation to when Vinny played "The Luckiest;" we all truly were the luckiest to know and love Jack.
Some of my favorite memories include playing chase with him in preschool, my huge crush on him in kindergarten when I made him a card but Mrs. Strawbridge put it back in my cubby before he could ever see it, playing outside with the hillside gang whenever I was in the neighborhood, endless AIM conversations after school giggling at his silliness and humor, him often singing "I miss you" with a (my) lisp, giving him my cellphone for a few days for fun because he didn’t have one, getting in trouble with our teachers constantly for chatting and laughing with our friends in middle school, always tagging him as superman in those tag photos for reasons neither of us knew. The list goes on and on. The thing I remember the most is he always gave me a reason to smile.  It was so easy with that contagious smile of his; I will always cherish it. He made everyone smile and laugh. 
Reconnecting briefly after so many years at the summer social last year was such a pleasant surprise, seeing eachother and other kingers all grown up, just beginning our adult lives. Gone way too soon, but comforting to know he is at home with our heavenly Father. I am grateful to have grown up knowing the Shockleys as a family of strong faith and goodwill. May God bless you all. I am sending all of my prayers to Mr. and Mrs. Shockley, Gracie, Peter, extended family and all of his closest friends. 
My deepest sympathies and my biggest hugs,
Lizzie Canida

Dear Steve and Sheryl,
We are so deeply saddened about the tragic death of your wonderful son, Jack. Our family truly enjoyed the time we had playing and watching our boys play hockey. We will never forget those All-Star years. Please know that you are all loved so much and we send our sincere condolences and heartfelt prayers to you and your family.  
Kim and Scott Heger

Steve and Cheryl,

While I did not have the pleasure of meeting your son, I am so very saddened and sorry to hear of the passing of this fine young man taken from our earthly presence much too soon.  May the Lord God our Savior bring you comfort and peace in the difficult times ahead.  I pray  that until you meet your beloved son again may God hold you all in the palm of his hand.

Kind and sincere regards,

Cheryl Niemeier (former co-worker at Taft)

24 years of beautiful experiences and love. No one can take that away. This young man in his brief life has already impacted so many people for generations to come. No one can undo his impact.  We have that gift with with us the rest of our lives. We’re angry. We’re so sad. But every now and then we smile because Jack is in peace in heaven and smiles down on us. Through our tears, the Hirschfeld family is sending hugs to everyone in the Shockley family.  

The entire Shockley family is in our thoughts and prayers.  We hope you will make your way through this unimaginably difficult time to   find comfort and peace.   Take care.

The Bromund Family  

We got to know you all when Grace and Peter played hockey for the Cathedral-Chatard team.  While no familty should have to go through this, know that you are loved and that you all have touched so many people. Thank you for sharing your family with us.   The Kirchgraber Family

Steve, my sincere condolences to you, your wife & family. Though the years have passed I remember you as the kindest guy & I am certain your son followed in your footsteps. I will keep you all in my prayers. God bless

My deepest sympathies to the family and everyone who knew and loved this young man. Julia Meister

We are thinking of you and praying for your comfort as you remember your beautiful son. We have such sweet memories of your family on Kingsley Drive 

Dear Steve, Cheryl, Gracie, Brandon, Peter, and all extended family...our hearts are heavy and our prayers are numerous for all of you. We love Jack like our own and always enjoyed having him around. We’ve been blessed to have him and your family in our lives. His dear friendship to Michael and all of us will stay with us forever in our hearts. We love you and pray for you now and always. 
The Annee Family 

To the family of “Jack”
Though I have never met any of u my heart goes out to u n this time of sorrow n the loss of ur son  - there can’t be anything worse than loosing a child - I learned of ur horrible tragedy frm r wonderful priest Fr Francis - May God give u all peace n comfort throughout this time of sorrow n in the days to come - u r forever n r thoughts n prayers - Blessings Always 🌹🙏🙏🙏🙏

When Jack was probably 3 or 4 years old, he went to see Santa with his family in the basement of Christ the King School.  Although he was interested, he couldn’t muster the nerve to sit on his lap, and although Santa could tell he wanted to talk, Jack never said a word.  Through the course of that morning, Santa noticed Jack, by himself, a face in the crowd, staring directly at him with a serious look on his face. First to the right of where Santa sat, then  on the left, then in the corner...you get the idea. As Santa’s time came to an end and the crowd had mostly dissipated, Jack came directly toward Santa  until he got about 5 feet away. It was just Santa and Jack at the back of the room. Santa asked if he was ready to talk.  Jack paused, and then responded, “I’ll be right back”. He ran out of the cafeteria. Santa assumed he went to get his parents. Nope, he just bailed and Santa didn’t see him again! 🎅🏽😂

My family is so saddened by your loss.  Jack and your family have been so important to the life and development  my son, Stan.  We are so blessed to have experienced Jack and the love of your family.  Even though Jack didn’t know everyone in our family...EVERYONE in our family new Jack🥰  He was always so kind and witty.   You all will forever be in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. 🙏🏽 May God continue to bless your family today and forever ❤️
Letitia Jackson and Family


To the entire Shockley family,

I can't imagine the pain you are feeling at the loss of your son, Jack.  I remember him as a small boy at mass, always well behaved, and so totally cute!  He was the kind of young man that any parent would have been proud of - you are wonderful parents.  The world will miss this very special young man.  May God comfort you as you support one another.  My prayers are with you all.

Steven, condolences 
I never had the pleasure of meeting your son Jack. But if he’s anything like his father, he was a fine young man.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

John was always a fun guy to have in class. He was very well behaved and always with a smile. I am so sorry for his family. He was described as an old soul but brought such light to many old souls. He will be missed.

Dear Steve, Cheryl, Gracie and Peter,
I’m truly heart sick for all of you. There are no words to console your grief. I fondly remember Jack in kindergarten with his sweet crooked smile. He was such a cutie. I hope all of the memories you have shared with your family will live in your hearts forever.  
Love and prayers,
Kathy Gogola

Jack was a lot of fun in class.  He always had a reason to make us laugh.  He did have great prayers.  
Know my prayers for all the family.  Great loss in the midst of hard times.  May you know the Holy Spirit’s comforting presence.
Sr. Kathleen

Steve and Cheryl,
  I am so sorry. I pray that you both heal quickly. He is in a beautiful place, peaceful. We never  do understand why these things happen, God wanted this talented young man. I remember the day he was born. Hugs to all of you...🙏🙏❤

I knew Jack as Adam’s roommate at IU. He was a quiet young man but always willing to help me (us) carry things in/out, find a tool or just say ‘thank you’.  We are so deeply saddened by this news of such a wonderful, kind young man who was taken too soon. I remember his smile mostly. RIP Jack and God bless you and your loved ones as you all transition onto your next journey.  So very sorry for all who knew and loved you deeply.   With sincere sympathy, Lona Neal & the Neal family 🙏🏻😔

I played tennis with Jack at Chatard and one of my favorite memories was when we hit a lob he would call it a “phat topspin lob.” He would always be in on the euchre in the team bus on the way to the matches. 
He also was a highly feared member in our 31Heaven fantasy football league and it won’t be the same anymore. 
It doesn’t feel real that you’re gone from this earthly life, but man I can’t wait to cut it up with you in Heaven buddy. 

OBITUARY

John David "Jack" Shockley

25 April, 1996 – 12 August, 2020

Feeney-Hornak Keystone Mortuary

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