Richard was my friend he had a great sense of humor and of all things a big heart his friend Ryan Rea

I am learning so much about Richard; he sounds like a very remarkable, interesting man. I wish I had known him better in life, but I alway knew from my friendship with you, Joan, and Mendolyn that he was an adoring father & husband, and hard-working family man. I know from my mother's raving about him after returning from outings with you all, that he was a very kind, gracious, patient man (who was also lucky at bingo!) 
My heart breaks for you both, and your families, at the untimely loss of such a dedicatated, sweet man. I look forward  to knowing him better when we are all reunited in Christ.
 
Joan and Mendolyn - you dear girls are in my heart,

Love Lori R.

Joan and Mendolyn,

I am so fortunate in that I was able to spend time with, and get to know Richard these past few months. I was always telling people what a gentleman he was, and how he always treated me so well on our outings. He will be greatly missed. Our hearts and our prayers are with you both,

Love, your sister in Christ,

Anna Subotich

Uncle Richard will be missed, he the most kind-heart man I that I could call my uncle. I will miss our talks about our jeeps at every family event and all the new gadgets we have acquired. Rest in peace and will see you one day.

Joan & Mendolyn,  Cherished memories are the beautiful treasure that the Lord gives us for times such as these.  Continue remembering all the special times you all had as a family.  Love, Debbie & Ronnie Whitehead

What a privilege it was to have such a good friend. We had some good times rich your best buddy Josh.

Richard, you were a great neighbor and a real nice guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

It has been one week since my brother has left us. I miss my brother deeply. The only way I find peace is knowing that he is in a much better place. My sisters, mom and dad, mendolyn and Joan are trying to stick together, because  I know my brother would have wanted that. He loved family!! He was my only brother and it breaks my heart that I wont be able to hear his voice again. I know I will be reunited with him one day, but until then I must hold on to the memories we had. The one memory that brings a smile to my face is when we were younger he was  trying to make cinnamon toast and he asked me if the jar he had was the cinnamon, I told him it was,but I knew it was actually cumin. when he took a bite of the cumin toast he came after me, he was MAD. LOL!! I think my brother knows I did that out of love, lol. I will carry my brother in my heart until the day we see each other again.

Richard you will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to all the family, May you find peace knowing he's gone home. For the short time I knew Richard , it was easy to like him. We drank coffee and enjoy great conversation. Rest in peace, you were a good man.

Richard we will miss you here at the New Life Trading Post,enjoyed sharing coffee and talking about anything and everything with you.What a great help you were on  computer knowledge,i could use your help now as a matter of fact,i am sure the Lord has you rewiring and updating his software.Rest easy amigo. Stephen Smith

May you rest in peace Richard.  God needed another angel and has called you to heaven to serve.  You truly were one of the nicest people I have ever met!  It was a pleasure to have you as a brother-in-law.  I will especially miss you coming over for Sunday lunches with me and my mom.  I know you are watching over Joan and Mendolyn and I want you to know that I will do the same!  I will miss you and will see you on the other side!

Darlene Diehl

Mi Amigo Richard Alfaro, every time we cross our ways at Compaq/HP he will stop and greet me, he always had time to share his friendship with a smile. My condolences to the Alfaro family…

You always brought a smile to our face and were the most bright when we got to see you! 
Keeping us up to date on the family and the current event events. Mckinnley and I will miss you so much for a your compassion and generosity! 
Missing you a lot and proud of your memory! - mckinnley and dori

I am so sorry. Thought Richard was a wonderful person.  Remembering all the good times we had.  Praying for you. 
                                    Love,   Nancy, Julie and Gilda

My heart goes out to you and your family.  I was deeply sorry to hear about Richard.  I have known and work with Richard for over 20 some years he will be miss.  Love and Blessings to you and may God continue to keep you all 
from Stanley Adams

Joan, 
So very sorry for your loss.  Cindy Densmore contacted me.  I cannot imagine the sorrow in losing someone so young.  Richard was a very special man.  Prayers for you and your family.
Karen Gayeski colemam

I've got several memories of my brother with the first one being his love for dogs. When I was about 5 he had a red chow named Sargent. I am guessing the name had a little to do with the personality of my brother “back then” he was like a drill Sargent. I'd remember him lecturing me for hours if I'd talk back. As I got a little older I can remember him buying a microwave and a stereo for my parents. He loved music and enjoyed swapping CD's with others to “record them” I can also remember my friends thinking he was so cool because when he would pick me up from places Peter Gabriel's “sledgehammer” would be blaring out of the speakers in his blue Buick. He'd take me to get ice cream often, looking back it might not have been bonding time with me, but instead flirting with all the cuties behind the counter.
As we got older he'd ALWAYS talk about investments and how if 401 was offered at a job to jump in contributing the max! We still continued the bond we had with our pets. Every time he'd come by (yes even all those late unannounced visits because he was in the area – I always wanted to say Duh Brother we live in the SAME area!) he'd always pet my dogs and make sure they knew the basic commands (as I wouldn't have taught my dogs, then always a smile on his face when they knew them) After Mendolyn realized my pets were awesome, she asked my brother for one, and as we ALL know, what Boo wanted Boo got even if Sweet Mamma Joan said no.  Then here comes Daisy – cutest lil red mix that we all know Reminds me of my late dog Red! Now when I'd go visit (but never unannounced) it was my turn to make sure he taught her the basic commands. Now with a smile on my face she'd pass with flying colors. My brother taught her well. Every time I step foot in their house Daisy loves on me and I love her right back. 
I know that when we were learning all about the terrible teens with my oldest I'd call on my brother to assist in talking to my son because pop and I weren't getting through to him. He'd give it a shot with no experience under his belt, but even with that being said, he never told me no. I can remember him telling me he saw a lot of himself in my son when it came to people telling him what to do. They both hated it and that Richard (my son) will learn on his own time. I know that he was proud of my other son Tata going into the Army and would often talk to him about making it a career. He'd stop talking real fast when I'd say females are allowed in the Army you should tell Mendolyn. Then the relationship with our youngest was a love hate one. Bo loved my brother and all his knowledge on technology but hated when my brother had something better than him. They would be in my parents living room talking about megapixels this and zoom lens that. My brother would always ask him to go take pictures of my parents plants. Strangely enough he'd go do it then my brother would direct him in which angle to REDO the picture. Speaking of pictures – my brother was obsessed with taking pictures. He was even more obsessed on printing photos wait not only printing them but for some reason picking the worst pictures and making them into poster size – who does that? Uhh my brother! If you don't believe me ask my children!
Another thing that is probably the hardest thing for me to talk about is his love he had for our parents. He was there often eating breakfast or lunch or dinner sometimes all 3. I'd be so jealous because I'd have to come home from work to cook but looking back I am glad he was able to spend so much time with them.  My dad and brother would always start a car project then end up calling my husband Lorenzo to help in some sort of way – they couldn't get something unscrewed or put on just right. We'd joke on the way up there laughing that no one but my brother can turn a 30 min break job into a 3 hour job. We'd joke on a yearly basis (Christmas time) on how everyone wanted to go Black Friday shopping Most people wanted to go to major department stores, nope not my brother he always want to go to Pep Boys to get the 10.00 gift card and the case of oil for whatever it was on sale for.  Oh yes and Christmas – I have 3 boys living in the same house and a husband and guess what my brother would buy all 4 boys – FLASHLIGHTS, at first I thought ok good, so no one fights, but for the next several years it was the same gift of Flashlights!! I think after the second year we called him on it, only for my brothers response to be – No that is where you are wrong, they are not the same, these are Halogen lights see how the light is brighter, the one I bought last year were regular. Then the shape of the little bulbs would change the following year and so on. So maybe I stand corrected when I say that my brother for about 4 years bought my boys the same flashlights for Christmas. Now that I have typed this it is all making sense – I am starting to think that my brother might have been using that 10.00 gift card and a coupon to Pep Boys to buy the flashlights in bulk because I believe he handed flashlights to several people, not just my children. Back to my parents – I know he loved them and no parent should see their child pass, but someone told me our Faith and our memories will get us through this time. To mom and dad never lose faith due to the trials in our life. God is a loving and trusting God and he will see us through. 
My brother would never meet a stranger as many of them turned into friends. He was very easy going and didn't seem to have a care in the world. We know that he'd bend over backward for Mendolyn so much so I am surprised he isn't in the shape of a pretzel. It is so funny that as I was growing up he would be the one to discipline me so I thought for sure poor Mendolyn, her daddy aint gonna let her do nothing! Was I ever wrong on that one. The love for his daughter is visibly clear and I pray that is something that she will always remember – her daddy loved him some Boo! She is a 21 year old young woman now who will go on plenty of dates before finding her Knight in Shining Armor and as she does I pray she finds someone that will love and respect her as her daddy would want and that he has the same work ethic as my brother (to be a provider for his family) Oh, but if he isn't no worries, because I am sure Uncle Lorenzo, Pablo and the rest of her Uncles will “teach him real quick” Mendolyn is the bridge to my brother and the Deihl family. I hope both sides can cross the bridge to continue on with what I am sure my brother wanted and that is for us all to stay connected. Joan often refers to me as the clue that holds the families together. I will be glad to pass that torch to my beautiful niece Mendolyn. 
Please continue to pray for both families and he will be equally missed.

Rosie, my deepest sympathy on the loss of your son, Richard.  May God keep you in his arms throughout this sad period in your life. - Josie Lozano Wright

Praying that Joan and Mendolyn will find comfort and peace knowing that Richard is in heaven and will someday be with you both forever.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. You have our deepest sympathy.

JD and Mendolyn may you both find comfort and strength in Our Lord and Saviour during this
difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with
both of you other family members and friends.
Sincerely,Ruby A.Johnson

My condolences to the family.  May your loved one rest in peace.  Ecclesiastes 9:5.

Rosie, so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family.

Joan,  I was so sorry to read of Richard's passing. I remember you both fondly from the days at the apartments on Greens Road.  Both you and Mendolyn will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days to come.  Cindy Densmore

I was sorry to hear about Richard's passing the other night at work, we worked together off and on since 1994 when I first met him at store 341 and then in 2002 we both went to 371 and we stayed friends since.
                                                                Paul Groendes

Joan & Mendolyn,

My deepest condolences to you and your family during this sad time. Joan you are in my prayers. 

Carol P -

Richard and I worked together at HP for many years. Richard always had a smile and was willing to help in any way he could.
I remember the first time noticing Richard at work in Kroger. I had just left HP heading home, really tiered but needing a few things at the store. My first thought was this man had worked all day as I did and now here he is working another job. Richard was a quite a man. He will be missed.

Richard was one of the kindest persons I have ever met in my life. A gentle soul. Sorry for your loss.

Uncle Richard was one of the most easy-going guys I've met. I remember as a youngin' running around with all the cousins on one Christmas day at Aunt Joan's and Richards. With all the chaos happening between us cousins I remember taking a few minutes to hang out and have a talk with Richard. It was a relief! Such a calm and cool man. I'm very glad to have met you in my lifetime.  You will be missed by many uncle Richard!

So sad to hear about your loss. I worked with Richard for many years at Compaq/HP. He was a good person and worker.

Richard & Roise, so sad to hear about your son, my thoughts & prayers are with you both. Lady from the Gift Shop @ Cyfair Hospital.

Joan- Our sincerest condolences to your family during this time of loss. I pray that GOD will comfort you and the family and give you great strength. Know that Rick will continue to be with you and Mendolyn in great spirit always. God Bless you and the family. - Silvia, Manny, BJ and the rest of the crew at Brothers Pizza

Joan and Mendolyn, We am so sorry to hear about Richard/your dad.  We have many fond memories of our many years as neighbors, he was always so friendly and happy and such a great person who would do anything for anyone. I know you will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.  May God Bless you and bring you comfort and peace.

It saddens me to know that a great man is gone. He will be missed.

To the entire Alfaro family, Our deepest sympathy go out to you. May all our prayers ease your pain and memories make you smile. Remember its not good bye, its just see you later.

Love
Suzanne an Guaalupe Gracia

May the fond memories of your loved one sustain you during this difficult time.  Let God wrap his  loving arms around you and comfort you. 2 Cor 1:3

My friend, Joan I feel your heartbroken and sadness. I pray to God to comfort you and his peace during these times of sorrow. God bless you and family.

To the Alfaro family, may God bless you and keep you strong during this difficult time. May you comfort each other and know that Richard will always be in and live in your hearts forever and he will  continue to watch over you all.

I had the pleasure of working with Richard for many years at Compaq/HP. He was a great guy and will be missed by many. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Daddy, I would do anything to hear you say "I love you" again, but I know you are in a better place and watching down on mom and I. I have been strong not only for you but for myself and mom, because we both know that is what you would want for us. You were the most giving LOVING father. You would do/did anything for mom and I. We both love you and cant wait to be by your side in Heaven. This will be a hard journey but I know with you looking down on us, mom and I will be the strongest we have ever been. Love you and miss you!

Sending our Heartfelt Sympathy to your family Joan & Mendolyn. We are keeping your family in our prayers. So sorry to hear of your loss.                Maurice & Rose Wick

Myself, Neal, Allison and Cyniah are very saddened about Richard's passing. He was a wonderful brother-in-law, uncle and great uncle. He has been a part of our lives for many years and was a true and caring person to all of Joan's family. He made Joan and Mendolyn very happy. I enjoyed all the conversations I had with him. He will be greatly missed.

So sorry to hear about the loss of Richard.  I only got to work with him briefly at Hewlett-Packard, but he was always so kind and helpful and never without a smile.  He will be missed.

My prayers are with you Joan and Mendolyn.  Dorothy DeFork

RIP uncle Richard.  It's still hard to believe we will be laying you to rest. I will definitely miss your laid back, calm and collective personality. I know you're watching over my aunt and cousin and will be making sure they are taken care of as always. We love and will miss you tremendously.

I am greatly sadden to hear about Richard. Richard and I shared a lot of laughs and findings together.  My deepest sympathy goes out to the Alfaro family. May God give you peace in this time of sorrow.

Joseph Pleasant

Very sorry for your loss. Allow the almighty (psalm 83:18) to bring you comfort and peace. Please accept our condolences.

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

My thoughts and prayers are with Richard's family and loved ones at this difficult time.  He will be greatly missed.  Donna Rowland

So sad to know about Richard passing.  Great hard working person.  He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

God blessed

Our Condolences to the Alfaro Family. We are so sad to hear about Richard. We would always enjoy talking to him and  seeing him at Kroger. He will be miss!
Richard & Rosabel Huerta

Joan and Mendolyn and the Alfaro Family
Our sincere condolences.
Richard was friendly and helpful.
Our Prayers are with you.
Jesse & Shirley Ann Mabasa

I miss you so much and cant wait to see you again one day. I know you are being taken care of and are in a great place watching over everyone keeping us safe. I loved that you were so go with the flow, do what ever, carefree type of guy you will be greatly missed and wanted

Daddy, I cant even begin to describe how much mom and I are missing you. You did EVERYTHING in the world for us, and would go to ends way just to put a smile on our faces. (especially mine, sorry mom) I'll always remember you would ALWAYS end a phone conversation with saying "I love you", EVERY single time you called me! Oh and how you called me "BOO" as my nickname even in public at the age of 21, even how embarrassing it was I would do anything to hear that come out of your voice again. You were defiantly a STRONG fighter with everything you had been going through, and you fought to the end, just like mom and I. You were the most carefree and kind hearted man that I have ever known. You had your first love with mom but the second I was born I'm pretty sure I stole that from her...(sorry mom, LOL) I know you loved mom and I to the moon and back, and nothing will ever change that. You will be tremendously missed not only by mom, me and Daisy (our family dog) but the whole family as well. I can not wait to be in Heaven with you, even though I know you are looking down on mom and I. We love you and will do our best to stay strong not only for you but ourselves. WE LOVE YOU! 

Daughter, Mendolyn

Richard was a very sweet & giving person, just like Joan.  They care about people, family & friends.  He will be sadly missed by all.  We dont really know enough about life to be sad about death.  God bless!  Love,  Nancy Baker & family

Mr. Richard,  Very great person to have known, and appreciate, Joan and Mendolyn you have each other now so a hug a day will endure.  Gerald & Carol Hays

Joan and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Extending deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss, JD.

Love you very much TiO!!!! You will always be in our hearts!!!! Sandra,, Tony,,Michael,,Antonio!!!! May you Rest In Peace with love........love your nephew Michael Alfaro!!

To JD, Mendolyn and Alfaro Family:
Our lives are enriched with the time that we spend with our family and friends.These things we cherish; Richard will be missed but memories never fade. Stay prayerful!!!

Joan & Mendolyn, my prayers are with you and the Alfaro family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Joan and Mendolyn, praying God's grace will give you hearts filled with peace during your time of loss. Blessings to you and the Alfaro family.

Our deepest condolences to the family. May God be the comfort you may seek in this trying time. Prayers for peace and understanding.

You have told me so many times that  Richard was a good husband.  You could not say enough about your husband and how much you loved him. I know you and Mendolyn will miss him very much.  My prayers are with you two and the family. 
Bonnie Grons (Humble, Texas)

May God bless you and your family
I am so sorry for your loss ..

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JD and Mendolyn I'm so heartbroken for you both! I will pray for you and the Alfaro family!

thoughts and prayers to Joan and Mendolyn Alfaro, and to all the Alfaro family, will miss my nephews laugh and smile.

Joan, Mendolyn and Alfaro Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you.   May God grant you peace during your loss.

Joan and Mendelyn, was so sorry to hear about your loss....my thoughts and prayers are with you both and Richard's family

Joan and Mendolyn...I will miss my nephew's laugh and smile.  When we think things are falling apart, God is putting things into place, look at the cross and depend on your faith to pull you through.  Remember you are not alone...we are here for you.

love,
Aunt Alice O.

Joan and Mendolyn...I will miss my nephew's laugh and smile.  When we think things are falling apart, God is putting things into place, look at the cross and depend on your faith to pull you through this difficult time.  Remember you are not alone...we are here for you.

Love,
Aunt Alice

Joan and Mendelyn,  so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and the Alfaro family.

Joan and Mendalyn,  so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and Richard's family.  Love you.

Joan, I just found today from Alma. Ny heart goes out to you. I will keep you and your family in prayer.

OBITUARY

Richard Alfaro Jr.

19 May, 1965 – 27 January, 2015

Brookside Funeral Home & Memorial Park

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