I first met your sweet mom when we were 3 or 4 years old in dance class. Then, in August 1990 we began kindergarten at Bainbridge. I was really nervous to begin school, but I remember being excited when I walked in and saw your mom-she was the only kid there I knew! Back then kindergarten was only half day so my mom, your grandma, and Tressman Goode’s mom used to take turns picking up the three of us. It was always extra special when we got to actually go home with each other and play the rest of the afternoon rather than getting dropped off at our own homes. Over the next six years before I moved away we had countless sleepovers. At one of these sleepovers, I believe it was her 10th or 11th birthday party, we were sleeping in a tent in the backyard. There were several girls piled in the tent and we had started to quiet down when suddenly the tent began to shake and someone outside was making loud, wild noises. It was Uncle Wayne! He scared us all and got a big kick out of it! A few years our dads took us to the Monster Truck Rally and we always loved that. We cheered for different trucks (I think she liked Big Foot), and we would get so excited when our favorites would race each other! We spent many afternoons playing in the Clinton Falls below your great grandparent’s. One time when I was at her house your grandma had put out some stick butter to soften to make cookies. We didn’t get to make cookies because your mom and I ate an entire stick of butter! We didn’t put it on anything-just took a bite and passed it to the other until it was gone! The last time I got to visit with your mom was when Winston was a few months old. She had done a closet clean out and I was buying a purse off of her. I’d stopped by the house to pick it up and it was so nice to catch up with her! It was evident that she loved her little family and the life she was living!  I hope you are both lucky enough to have a childhood friend as fun and wonderful as your mom like I did! 

While I did not know Jessica personally she was part of the PHDIY family. She will live forever in your hearts and cherished memories   May you remember her love for you and her love of crafting when you see the results of her creativity in your home 

Jessica was the very first person I ever hired. She came to an interview to work at Sun Spot and I was blown away by her kindness and infectious personality. We clicked from day one and have remained friends ever since. Jessica was one of the most genuine people that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.

3 years ago on a brutally cold day, I found out the hard way that once our vehicle is started, it will drive without the keys in the vehicle as long as you don't shut it off.  That morning I drove two of my kids to preschool.  After I shut off the vehicle and walked them into school, I found out I was stranded in their preschool parking lot.  It was really cold and I hadn't dressed warm enough. Thankfully our newborn was at home with my husband, whom I couldn't reach by phone, due to poor cell phone service .  I decided to ask Facebook if anyone in Greencastle could give me a ride home.  After dropping off Miles at school, Jessica and baby Winston came and picked me and took me home.   Jessica was the only person who reached out to help me and it really meant so much to me.  She drove out of her way(even though she said she didn't) to help someone who had only bought Tupperware from her. 

Jessica & Matt Taught me how to be a First Responder. That Was the first time I had ever met Jess. She had a smile that could light up a room! From that moment on we were friends. She was my Tupperware Lady, I remover a day we were talking about the Tupperware rolling pin. I told her I had a old one, and thought it was one of the first ones they had come out with. I explained it had belonged to my mother who had passed away many years ago! I told her it had a crack in it so it did not hold water anymore ( but I did not care it was moms). A few days passed, and a box was delivered to my house, when I opened the box inside was a new Tupperware rolling pin, along with many more items. The note said wanted you to have these hope you enjoy them. Your friend Jess.  90% of my Tupperware are from Jess Makes me cry! The rolling pin she sent me is one of my most treasured gifts! It now has a home next to my moms. Boys that was the kind of person your mom was so kind, and always thinking about others.  Her smile is the best. 
Kaye Cornelius 

Jessica was the first person who was nice to me when I moved here the last month of middle school. She was my only friend for the whole first year I lived here. When my puppy was killed many many many years later, she was the first person to send me a condolence card. And again, a few years later when my dog became sick suddenly and it came time to say goodbye, she left a gift on my front porch. She was one of the few genuinely kind people in the world, generous without expectation. 

Miles & Winston.. your momma was one of the most giving & selfless people that I know! We should all be more like her.  She could go to the dollar store & make up the most thoughtful gifts to be given & melt your heart with her kindness! Your Mom & Dad were there for me during  a time of uncharted waters to answer questions & concerns when Fred was sick plus would drive over to check on him & I when they knew I needed them without them knowing I really needed the reassurance . Your Mom had a smile that would light up a room as you can tell in her pictures. It never wavered. You boys are her biggest blessing & she will be with you always. She loves you & will continue to be with you. 
I love you!!  Great Aunt Cathy… remember… I’m the great one!! Lol

Your momma was not only my Tupperware lady but,  she was also an amazing woman just so, full of life and her smile was so contagious. I’ll be forever grateful to have known her sweet soul. Prayers and hugs to you all. Always know she will always be with you and she loves you so much! 


Jessica and I use to have lots of crazy weekends together! We would shop till we couldn’t shop anymore! We started talking over my clearance finds and she wanted me to teach her how I did it. Next thing you know we we’re at Walmart almost every weekend, hitting up 3 to 4 a day finding hidden clearance and always ending our day with dinner. Best haul was are basketball goals! We had a blast doing it and made a lot of fun a good memories! 

Boys, I remember when your mom was little she liked to play dress up with me, Heather, and Billie Jo at your Great Grandma Frye’s house. One day we were all dressed up and Grandma Frye called Aunt Linda and told her and Aunt Linda came over wearing her wedding dress!

Natalie Spontak

When I was brand new at PCOL Jessica always treated me right, no matter what. Being brand new in a place that was a very thick family was tough. Honestly I wanted to quit after a few shifts. Because he her treating like I had been there forever I stayed. I will never forget that. 

Your momma loved you boys more than you will ever know! You were the light of her life! Her face lit up when she would talk about you. It was a pleasure knowing your mom. She was a kind and giving person. She will always be looking over you. She is always with you. She's all around. Be blessed boys! 

We were teenagers both working at Danville Kroger and we witnessed one of the baggers put a shopping cart in the back of the Managers truck and all we could do was laugh and deny everything. 

Our thoughts & prayers are with your family at this time of tragic loss & grief. 
Greg & Allen Hardin Family


Jessica will certainely be missed. I am so sorry for your loss! I'm thankful I had a chance to get to know Jess while she was on her travel contract. Many thoughts and prayers will continue for your family during this trying time. ❤

OBITUARY

Jessica Nicole Carter

17 July, 1984 – 7 July, 2022

Hopkins - Rector Funeral Home

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