Ethel Deloris Ross

Born on June 25, 1946, in the warmth of her family's home in Darrow, Louisiana, Ethel Deloris

Carter Ross's arrival was a beacon of love, life, and endless possibilities. Known affectionately

as "Red" by her mother and "Aung Sug" for her red hair, Ethel carried the legacy of her mother,

Evelyn, who was also called Red in her youth. Ethel was later lovingly nicknamed "Toet" by her

mother, reflecting her childhood fondness for being carried close.

Ethel was the fourth of twelve siblings, born to Earl Moses Carter (Uncle Moe) and Evelyn

Harris Carter (Nannan). Her early years were marked by a move to Norco, Louisiana, where her

mother sought a better education for her children. Ethel attended Mary McCloud Bethune High

School, a school her father helped build, and always reminisced about its immaculate condition.

In 1955, at the tender age of nine, Ethel embraced her faith, receiving Jesus and being baptized in

the Mississippi River alongside her sisters Ann, Edna, and Ruby. They were among the last to be

baptized in the river, a memory Ethel cherished deeply.

Ethel's life was a testament to service and excellence. After graduating high school in 1964, she

attended Southern University of New Orleans. In 1967, she enlisted in the United States Marine

Corps, where her dedication and exceptional service earned her several commendations,

including the National Defense Service Medal and the Good Conduct Medal. Ethel's leadership

and efficiency as a Private running the PX during her commanding officer's absence earned her

the rank of Sergent and Meritorious Mast.

Beyond her military service, Ethel was a devoted homemaker, loving wife, and nurturing mother.

She married Maynard Ross in a beautiful ceremony in New York, officiated by Maynard's

grandfather, Rev. Connie Stamps. Together, they raised two wonderful daughters, Daylene and

Wednesday, in a home filled with love, creativity, and faith. The Ross household was known for

its legendary Christmas celebrations, a tradition Ethel cherished.

Ethel's creativity shone through her writing, with two published books to her name: "Serene" and

"Kena and the Christmas Hat." She also owned a charming shop named "Girls, Girls, Girls" in

Laplace, Louisiana, where she featured handmade clothes, a skill she honed with her sister Ruby.

A connoisseur of the arts, Ethel spent her later years enjoying plays, musicals, and concerts,

often featuring her talented grandchildren, Dustyn and Ethan. Her passion for beautiful homes

led the family to move several times, each house filled with warmth and love. Ethel's life was a

tapestry of kindness, generosity, and selflessness. She touched everyone she met with her loving

spirit and helping hand.

Ethel Deloris Carter Ross passed away peacefully on June 3, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of

love and excellence. She is survived by her children Daylene Ross Carter (Douglas Carter) and

Wednesday Ross Newell (Gordon Newell), and grandchildren Bruce Blake, Jawan Williams,

Gordon Newell II, Dustyn Carter, and Ethan Ross Newell.

She also leaves behind her siblings Edna Simmons, Ruby Cummings, Eddie Carter (Connie

Carter), Helen Johnson, Ivory Watkins (Sherman Watkins), Ella Dee Carter, Mary Ellen

Campbell, Irma Edwards (John Edwards), and Don Peters Carter (Chrystal Carter), sister-in-law,

Marie Elaine Woodard, and a host of cousins, nieces, and nephews. Ethel was predeceased by her

beloved husband, Maynard Ross, parents Earl and Evelyn Carter, and siblings Margaret (Ann)

Terry, Patsy Lawson, brothers-in-law Harold Ross Jr., and Maurice Ross.

Ethel's Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, June 8, 2024, at 2:00 PM at Singing Hills

Chapel in Dallas, Texas. Those unable to attend in person can join via live stream on

YouTube https://youtube.com/live/JnOBajzrknY

In lieu of flowers, contributions to Dustyn and Ethan's Music Fund are welcome via Zelle: 214-

664-1456 or Cash App https://cash.app/$mrsdaycarter

The Ross family extends their deepest gratitude for all the words of encouragement and acts of

kindness during this time, with special thanks to LightChurch, The Church of Garland, and Soul

Rep Theatre for their unwavering support.

Ethel's life was a radiant example of love, creativity, and faith. Her spirit will continue to inspire

all who knew her