I am so grateful to have met and gotten to know Heather a bit over the last several years through our mutual friend, Jennifer.  Heather was such a warm and friendly person who made everyone she met feel instantly at ease.  She truly adored her son, her husband and her animal rescue work.  The loss of such a vibrant and kind-hearted woman is heartbreaking, and I send my sincerest condolences to those closest to her.  Rest in peace, lovely lady.  You will be missed tremendously.  

Heather was a wonderful person - quick to laugh and beamed with pride when speaking of her son. I was fortunate to work with her for several years at Wells Fargo. My deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers are lifting up for Heather’s loved ones. 

Our family has known Heather for too many years to count.  We shared many great times together.  She was always a delight to be around.  Her eyes always lit up when she talked about Hayden, Ben & her family - dogs included.  Her thoughtfulness, her spinach dip, her compassion for any dog & her hugs will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

The Peoples Family
Sandy, Russ, Joseph & Addison 

I remember Heather’s love for Animals as she fostered many.  She brought a litter of puppies to Thanksgiving one time.  We enjoyed knowing her. 🙏❤️‍🩹

Heather and I met when the boys were babies.  Hayden and Jake, along with some others,  went to daycare together. One mom asked everyone to go out for dinner one night. We all formed a wonderful bond, kids, moms, play dates, pool parties,  birthday parties, concerts and lifelong friendships kids and adults.   14.5 years later it continues. We had our quarterly "full bottle friday" a few weeks ago and I am so thankful I was able to see her.  She was a kind, beautiful, carefree soul who always had a smile on her face. She loved Hayden more than anything and we always talked about our kids when together and bounced off ideas of raising teenagers. The boys played t-ball together and that was the time she met Ben, also her love!  We will miss her dearly and pray for her parents, friends and most importantly Ben and Hayden. Always remember that beautiful smile and her big heart! 

We had such a great team working with Heather. She was beyond kind and just had a wonderful way about her. I can’t express the sadness and sympathy for her family. RIP 🙏🏼

Heather hired me and gave me an opportunity to work on her Team. I am deeply saddened to hear this tragic news. She was a beautiful soul with always the biggest smile on her face. As soon as she entered the room she would lighten it by her presence. She will be missed by not just a lot of people but also all the pets she helped rescue. Hope she is at a beautiful place in heaven. My deepest condolences to her family and loved ones. 

Heather was such a thoughtful, kind, and warm woman. Hayden, Ben and her permanent and foster dogs were her everything. Heather was a friend for many years, and even though we didn’t get to see each other as much as we would have liked, every time I saw her, her face would light up, we’d hug and pick right back up where we left off. She had a fantastic sense of humor, made the best spinach artichoke dip I’ve ever had, remembered the little things, and had such a huge heart. She will be deeply missed, and forever remembered. 

Heather and I worked together at Wells Fargo for several years. She had a keen mind and an amazing work ethic. What I remember Heather most for was her passion and love for her family and her work rescuing dogs. She often talked about her son and husband and we all knew her dogs like they were ours! 
My condolences to her family during this difficult time. You’re in my prayers. Heather was a wonderful friend. She will be missed by all who knew her.

I was part of a team that Heather managed at Wells Fargo, and in our limited interactions she came across as someone who was very friendly, helpful and encouraging. 
Sincere condolences to the families grieving the immeasurable loss they suffered. Please accept my condolences.

In the few years I worked with Heather, she served as an excellent mentor and I admired her passion in and outside of work. She always stood up for people who  didn't have the power or authority to stand up for themselves. It saddens me that she's no longer around to help those in need and brighten the room with her laughter.

Hayden, your mother talked about you every day and kept you as her number one priority; know that she'll always be with you in spirit, even in her physical absence. I know this is hard for you, but please remember to continue to make her proud.

I worked with Heather for 4 years. She was a wonderful work partner. She was very kind, positive, friendly, supportive and dedicated. I'm truly sorry for her loss.

Heather was a joy to be around. You learn a lot about a person when you sit with them inning after inning at a baseball field over the years.  Heather was such a kind and genuine person, a great mom who gave Hayden her unconditional love and  support, a lover of dogs, and someone who always made us laugh.  She was part of the Pineville baseball mom family and will be missed greatly. 

Sending our condolences to her family and friends, with a special hug to Hayden as you go through this difficult time.   Know you are wrapped in love and prayer . 

With Sympathy, 
The Hernquist Family 
Derek, Pam, Dylan and Anna. 

I worked with Heather for a year, she was very positive, friendly, to-go person. I am deeply saddened to hear this tragic news. We hold you close in our thoughts and on behalf of our entire team, please accept our deepest sympathies.

Our family sends their heartfelt condolences to Heather’s family.  Our sons played baseball together for a few seasons.  She was a  kind person who was very proud of her son.   May happy memories of Heather help you through this difficult time!

I worked closely with Heather for a couple years and always appreciated her positive, friendly, can-do personality. I am so saddened to hear this shocking news. My heart goes out to her family and loved ones at this time of grief.

I met Heather about 11 years ago when she wanted to help Lee County animals.  She ended up adopting him, now known as Scout. Anytime I needed Charlotte rescue help, she was happy to step up if she could help. If I didn't talk to her for 6 months, we would still mesh and work together well when we did cross paths again. She will be greatly missed.  Prayers to all her family & friends.  

I am so thankful to have Heather as part of our “baseball moms” and as a friend. Her love and support for Hayden was obvious to everyone. It was a joy to see how she cared deeply about so many, including animals, even our dog Mac would always run to her as soon as he saw her. Heather left a void for so many people. Hayden, we love you and are so glad to have you as part of our baseball family. 💜
Brian, Jami, Carter, and Griffin

Heather was part of my “Baseball Family” and “Only Child “ crew.  Her love for Hayden and animals was very apparent.  She spread joy and happiness at every game, and was always willing to give me a hug.  Heather I will miss you so deeply, and Hayden you are  loved by so many people. Ian and I will support  you and Ben in any way we can.   Prayers and Hugs, Jo Rinker (Mom) and Ian Rinker (2B  Player)
 

I worked with Heather. She was always so kind and patient. She was the kind of person who enjoyed helping others. She had a heart full of love and care and truly wanted to best for everyone. Heather was a special gift to this world. She will be sorely missed by everyone who was blessed to have her a part of their lives. 

I worked with Heather for 9 years at Wells Fargo.  Beyond being very good at her job, she was a great friend and partner  in crime for all those years.  She always spoke of her dedication to her son and the herd of animals she fostered over the years.  Heather will be missed. 

Our heartfelt sympathy to Ben, Hayden and Heathers family.  A life lost too young. We are praying for comfort and peace.
Much love
Steve and Terri Cogdill

We are "Baseball Moms", "Boy Moms", a group of women who enjoyed talking about our sons and their love for baseball.  Heather had a passion for Hayden, loved fostering her dogs, and always made us smile during a game.  Much love and many prayers to all of Heather's family.  

I worked with Heather at Wells Fargo prior to moving to a different team.  Heather and I shared similar passions, rescue dogs and being a mom to a son.  Hay was Heather’s world and when she spoke of him her eyes would dance.  I’m truly sorry for her loss.  

I loved working with Heather while we were both in Wells Fargo Securities. She and I would meet to prioritize the work on CID. Heather was a wonderful work partner but we also became friends and shared lots of stories and laughs about being working mothers. I will miss Heather very much. She was a loved friend to me and many others. 
My sincere condolences to your family on the loss of Heather.  May God comfort your family. 


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Heather Diane Vance

12 November, 1971 – 1 October, 2021

McEwen Funeral Service-Pineville Chapel

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