I will never forget the day i met Major Wiley. I was a fresh faced 12 year old boy. I knew that he had a heart of gold. He was an incredible man who inspired many of us in our years as cadets. May he forever rest in peace.

My deepest condolences to the Wiley family. 

Sincerely William McLaughlin.

My condolences go out to the Wylie family.
I had the opportunity of  meeting John thru his brother Peter when he was in Florida.

May  his family and friends draw upon the memories of their pasts. Our loved ones may leave us during this temporary time we spend on earth.  However, the memories we have shared and the love we have in our hearts brings us the warmth of them still being close by. 

It was a pleasure getting to meet John thru Peter.  And the time spent with him holds a memory in my heart.

Although gone,  but  not fogotten. 

Dollie Cardwell 







I wish to offer out deepest condolences to Uncle John family.  May he rest in peace.

Uncle John was a mentor for me as I considered and decided to join the Canadian Army.  He educated me on what to expect and the opportunities that are there.  I joined as a reservist infantry for five years.  A choice I have never regretted.  Thanks for the guidance Uncle John.  See you on the heavenly range someday.

Bless.

To my uncle John and family:
I am grieving the loss of my Uncle John for many reasons.
I feel the loss of his passing mostly  through my fathers grieving for his loved brother whom both, along with their sister Margaret ( my Aunty)have shared a life together through thick and thin growing up in old Toronto.

The folklore of yesteryears lives on in my Dads grey matter to this day, fresh as the butter and sugar sandwiches that graced the lunch bags Grandma Cleo put out for her kids; a memory that lingers on the taste buds of Pops to this day.

I also grieve for my Uncles passing because frankly after all my years on this rock, I never really had the pleasure of knowing or seeing John and family more than the seemingly fleeting encounters and rare family gatherings that had occurred in my limited memory bank.
I always had a desire and yearning hidden somewhere in me to know my dads side of family more all these years but alas.
No one is to blame and everyone was to blame including myself. We all just get caught up in life’s trivialities and forget sometimes about the important stuff.

I do know this though and that is..it was such a revelation and a sense of wonderment and inherent love that I felt for my Uncle John whenever I did see him whether it be at the boxing club or at boxing events  or during the rare times we visited each other for dinners and such with family in tow.
I just remember being charmed and beguiled as I studied his similar features and mannerisms to that of my fathers when he was bandying about talking or doing something.
I think it was just because When I did see him it was rare and special.

I honestly hold a heavy sense of regret for not knowing him more than I did and that goes for his family as well; Dear Miriam, John and Billy… My deepest sympathies for your loss.
We Wylie’s can be a rather elusive bunch and that goes for me too but I hope that the future may hold more time for knowing one another alittle more.. peace and ❤️ 

Sonny and I will remember John with great fondness.
We worked with him for many years in Boxing Ontario.
We knew him to be kind and honest, always a gentleman and always treated us with integrity and respect.
Our sympathies go to his wife, his brother Peter, and family and friends.
We will remember him.

A few favorite memory snap shots of John:

From the day we first met in Etobicoke (first day of work with Etobicoke Fire Department in 1995),  John has also been there as a friend and life coach.  Through ups and downs, John was always there with his quirky sense of humour - being supportive anyway he could. 
I remember the first time I had lunch with John.  He wanted to know if I liked onions and grill cheese.  To be honest, I never tried it so I thought why not. At his usual lunch hangout, he ordered his regular Spanish onion and grilled cheese sandwhich for each of us (must have been a full onion for each). So potent others would tear sitting close by.  I couldn't finish mine - he would just grin and ask if I was going to finish knowing fair well he would get a little extra for lunch.
Knowing his service background, we played a practical joke on General Heartburn.  He was very particular about his desk set up and didn't like anything out of place.  While he was up north on a military training exercise for over a week, my colleague / brother Winston and I decided to clear his desk of everything and funk shui his desktop.  We brought in about 10lbs of sand, rocks, small branches, leaves, etc. and a number of plastic military figurines, tanks, armored vehicles, and small flags.  Recreated a field battle on his desk.  Both Winston and I were worried about how John would respond.  We got to work early waiting patiently at our desks for John to arrive.  Winston giggling in the corner right next to John's desk.  We watched John pull into the fire hall, approach and open the door to the office where his desk was in clear view - he paused and the door closed behind him.  Within a few seconds, he giggled and stated he loved it.  Liked it so much, he kept it there the entire day.  Had coffee and ate lunch on the battlefield.  Some how, this solidified our friendship.

Brother John - you will be missed.  

My deepest sympathies to the Wylie family.    I'm very sorry to hear about John's passing. Many memories and support over the years from the General.  I will miss him very much.  



I would like to share my regrets with those who have lost a good man.

Uncle John was one of a kind; a true gentleman, genuine and authentic.  He had a heart of gold wrapped up in a tough exterior, and you could always count on him to tell a funny story.  My dad Peter (Uncle John's kid brother), had so many wild tales to tell about the shenanigans he and Uncle John got up to growing up on Logan Ave, and Uncle John's childhood will forever be documented in my dad's memoirs.   You will be missed Uncle John.  To Aunt Miriam and my cousins Bill and John Jr, my thoughts and well wishes of strength, gratitude, acceptance and peace within are with you during this difficult time.  Namaste Uncle John.  🙏 

My deepest condolences to my friend John may you Rest In Peace our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Dearest Brother, your passing has left us with a heavy heart. You were a big brother to me in every sense of the word.  The childhood we spent together I wouldn't trade for anything in the world.  You left a legacy with your family, your community, your friends.  The boxing world benefited from your involvement , and you also left an indelible mark with your military career, Toronto Fire Service and EMS service.  The multitude of memories we have shared will be forever cherished.  
Our love and gratitude to Miriam and family .

From sister's  Margaret Rose and Jackie:
"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal, a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance:
Ecclesiastes 3:104

Brother John see you for that dance on the other side. RIP, LEST WE FORGET

Peter, Margaret and Jackie

Miriam & family:  So sad to hear that John has passed away so soon.
I remember him well at Douglas & also talking about referring  the Boxing.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Peace be with you & your family.
Love Jane & Eric

Our very sincere condolences on the loss of a beloved husband, father, father-in-law and grandfather.
John, Marlene, Brendan and Luise Docherty

A good  man have left us John Wylie, father ,son husband Uncle Grand Pa but his legacy and  memories will live on.
General Heartburn ( John )I will miss you very much my brother after 26 years of trusted and close friendship,working in Fire Department and after retirement.
Sorry you had to leave us 5 mins before we reached your room to begin your final walk across the Sands of Time. Wished we could have held your hand tell you we love you.( you Knew)
Farewell ,Good bye my brother. Love You

R.I.P you were a friend of my late father my condolences to the family.

My thoughts and prayers goes out to John's family and friends.  I first met him at the Cabbagetown Boxing club back in the 70's.  He was a very kind and generous person.  He loved working with youth and that is evident with his career with cadets. His life was one of service, service to his country, his community and his family.  He will be missed. My you rest in peace.



On behalf of the Lorne Scots Regimental Association, I extend our sympathy and condolences to all of John's family and friends at this very sad time.  He will be missed.

Stewart Sherriff
Secretary
Lorne Scots Regimental Association

John was a vital part of the start of my career as a CIC officer. We have many fun memories and adventures with the cadets. He will truly be missed. My condolences to the family.

I would like to offer my condolences to Miriam and the rest of the Wylie family following learning of the passing of John. I had the privilege of serving with John in the Cadet program for most of his 12 years in the Navy and Army Cadets. He was a very dedicated officer with high expectations who was always there with an encouraging word. The Cadets were truly the beneficiaries of his tireless commitment to the program and their success. It was a privilege to know and serve with John. He certainly has left a lasting legacy of service.

I remember admiring Maj Wylie's professionalism and pride in the Cadets and the unit. He leaves a heritage to be treasured and kept alive in his memory. My deepest sympathies to Miriam and the family. May he rest in peace and his life be celebrated by all who knew him. 

Gillian Federico 

I would like send my sincere sympathy to Marian and family in the passing off John. Cheresh all those beautiful memories .
John was a great  mentor  and  friend for me when I started as a volunteer at 557 RCACC.Then when I became an officer he was a great person to get information from and he gave lots off encouragement to continue and not  give up.
He will be truly missed.



Peter, Jackie and Family, Our thoughts and prayers on the passing of John. We remember  the wonderful meal, barbecue we had with your Family when we met your brother John and his Family. That was 1984 before Olympics. Lots of boxers and great food and Family. Joe and I were made so welcome. John was such a wonderful man. He was interesting to talk to. Love to all Family. Joe and Ellen.

Please accept my sincere condolences to the Wile Family.

I remember attending a parade at the Army Cadet Corps in Brampton when John was the Commanding Officer.  I could tell that he was quite proud of the Cadets under his command. 
John, you will be missed.
My condolences and prayers to Miriam and family.

I had the pleasure of knowing John through our work on Toronto Fire Services as well as a Boxing Coach Trainer and Pro Boxing referee through Cabbagetown Boxing club.He was also a well respected military man and first responder as a paramedic .He will be missed but his memory will live on by his friends and family.So long friend Rest In Peace.  Captain Lance Campbell Retired Toronto Fire Service

John you were alway a kind man. Giving advise, giving your time, you've touch many athlete with you dedication. You will be missed

OBITUARY

William John Wylie (John)

19 September, 1944 – 28 November, 2021

Andrews Community Funeral Centre - Bramalea Chapel

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