A memorial service is a way to honour and remember a person’s life. Though most people are familiar with traditional funeral services, they may not understand all of the many options available when choosing cremation or the important aspects to consider when planning a cremation funeral. A cremation funeral service can include many of the same elements as a traditional funeral: flowers, music, readings, even a viewing.
If you have an immediate need to plan a cremation service or funeral for a loved one, reach out to your local Dignity Memorial® provider. A professional planner or funeral celebrant can answer all of your questions about cremation and cremation funerals to help you design a one-of-a-kind service for your loved one.
If you are planning ahead, here are some things to think about.
When to hold the cremation service
There isn’t a “right” time for a memorial service, and a cremation funeral can be held before or after the cremation itself.
When a funeral is held prior to cremation, the service can include a viewing, as with a traditional funeral. A viewing lets friends and family say a final goodbye. With this option, some families buy a casket; others rent a casket.
When a funeral is held after the cremation has occurred, the cremated remains (or "ashes") are usually present at the service in a cremation urn or other container. You can surround the urn with cherished photos and important keepsakes of the person being honoured to create a focal point that helps guests remember and celebrate your loved one’s life.
Where to place cremated remains
Cremation has the benefit of providing even more options for commemorating a life than traditional burial. Some families bury cremated remains in a cemetery; others place them in a cremation niche in a mausoleum. Some people ask that their ashes be scattered in a personally meaningful place; others want a family member to keep the ashes at home. No matter what choice your family makes, there is an opportunity to honour the life of your loved one with a ceremony memorializing the event. From a traditional graveside service to a beach gathering that ends in an ocean scattering, there is a meaningful cremation service option for everyone.
Regardless of where the final resting spot is, many families like to have a personalized marker and physical place to visit and remember their loved ones. Cemeteries offer options like pedestals, benches and statuary, but if a traditional site in a cemetery doesn’t appeal to your family, think outside the box. What activities or places were significant to your loved one? Consider planting a tree as a memorial or placing an engraved boulder at a special spot. You might purchase a bench or a paver for a sidewalk. Let your loved one's life inspire you.
And finally, in addition to those options, custom cremation jewellery houses and protects a bit of cremated remains in a timeless keepsake that can be passed from generation to generation.
When you choose cremation, you also have options for a personalized cremation funeral or memorial. A Guide for Families Choosing Cremation will help you understand your choices.
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We know that planning a cremation isn’t something families do every day. It’s important to understand that all providers are not the same. A Guide for Families Choosing Cremation gives you the information and facts you need to choose the best provider for your family’s needs.
Get your free guide for families choosing cremation
We know that planning a cremation isn’t something families do every day. It’s important to understand that all providers are not the same. A Guide for Families Choosing Cremation gives you the information and facts you need to choose the best provider for your family’s needs.