Born on July 8, 1952, in Baltimore, Maryland, she leaves behind her college sweetheart and husband of 46 years, Francis Silberholz. She is cherished in memory by her twin daughters, Emily Roman and Sascha Wasek, and her son-in-law, Christopher Wasek. Her grandchildren, Zoe (15), Liam (10), and Finley (7), are living legacies of her gentle guidance and whimsical spirit. She is also lovingly remembered by her brothers, George Donald Murry, Jr. and William Murry.
Deborah was preceded in death by her mother, Dolores Alice Murry (Brown); her father, George Donald Murry, Sr.; sisters-in-law, Liria Arcal and Judith Murry (Taylor); and parents-in-law, Frank and Mary (Boris) Silberholz.
Deborah was a graduate of the University of Maryland, Baltimore County and a devoted member of St. Mary's Roman Catholic Church in Annapolis. Diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis in her early 30’s, she never let this terrible disease dictate what she could or could not do. Downhill skiing, tent camping, hiking, whitewater kayaking, and crafting were just some of the activities that she enjoyed despite her physical challenges. Some of her favorite memories include hiking in the White Mountains and skiing Tuckerman Ravine on Mount Washington. Her constant optimistic and fearless outlook on life was an inspiration to all who met her.
Deborah had a natural talent for teaching and took every opportunity to pass on her plethora of knowledge, as her daughters and grandchildren can attest. From pointing out fossils and glacial scars in rocks to how to read and navigate from paper maps, she joyfully and effortlessly made learning fun. She homeschooled Sascha and Emily from first grade through high school. She was a part of the founding community of local homeschoolers during a time when homeschooling was still somewhat unpopular. She was also a founding member of St. Peter the Rock Homeschool Tutorial and taught Geography for a number of years. Her love of teaching stemmed from her never-ending curiosity. She enjoyed reading books, articles, crossword puzzles, and she absolutely loved her French class.
Deborah was an avid Girl Scout beginning in her own childhood until the day she passed away. She served as a Leader, Cookie Mom, and Community Cookie Manager during Sascha and Emily’s time in Girl Scouts from Brownies to Seniors. She spent countless hours volunteering her time to many different areas of Girl Scouts including the Thomas JS Waxter Center for Girls, a detention center in Laurel, Maryland and as a camp trainer for local Scout Leaders. She embodied the Promise and Law of Girl Scouts and taught others to do the same whether you were a Girl Scout or not. “On my honor I will try; to serve God and my country, to help people at all times, and to live by the Girl Scout Law.”
Beginning with the birth of her first grandchild, Deborah’s life centered around her grandchildren. She had an individual and close bond with each of them and made time to create unique traditions that reflected each grandchild’s interests. From sewing camp with Zoe, endless board games with Liam, and gingerbread house creations with Finley, Grandmom knew how to make each child feel special and the importance of creating memories.
Eternal rest grant to her, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon her. Amen.
Contributions may be made in Deborah's honor to:
Little Sisters of the Poor, Baltimore
601 Maiden Choice Lane
Catonsville, MD 21228.
The family kindly requests that potted plants not be sent, though flowers are welcome.
Visitation
Friday, May 24, 2024, from 2:00-4:00PM & 6:00-8:00PM
John M. Taylor Funeral Home
147 Duke of Gloucester Street
Annapolis, MD 21401
Funeral Mass
Saturday, May 25, 2024, at 9:00AM
St. Mary's Catholic Church
109 Duke of Gloucester Street
Annapolis, MD 21401
Interment
Hillcrest Memorial Gardens
Immediately following the Mass
1911 Forest Drive
Annapolis, MD 21401
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